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November 20th, 2009, 04:35 PM
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Hi ladies! My name is Krista (21) and my SO is Michael (24). We were NTNP for a few months and got out first BFP in early October. I miscarried on October 28th and was 7weeks4days at that point. I had a D&C the following day. I'm still waiting for my first AF to show up since the miscarriage. I'm hoping that it will come around Thanksgiving! Once my cycle gets back to normal, we'll probably keep NTNP (I say that because I don't chart or temp because it stresses me out too much and plus, I don't know enough about it, haha). I went through awhile of not wanting to try again any time soon or even have sex anymore because I was so upset. But, I know I can't let myself get like that. Not a day will go by that I don't think about the little bean though. Hopefully it will only take a few cycles again but I know that having a MC can throw your cycles out of wack, so we'll see I guess. Anyways, I was hoping I could join you ladies even though we'll be more "NTNP" in my eyes without all the charting, etc. But, we will definitely be BD'ing a lot to get that BFP again!
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November 20th, 2009, 04:41 PM
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Hi Krista. I am so sorry for your loss. It is very painful and if you dont feel ready to TTC right away that is ok too. I am glad you found us!
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November 20th, 2009, 04:49 PM
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Im sorry to welcome you here, but so glad you found us. This board is extremely supportive everyone here. Wheather your actively trying or just thinking about it, we have all been there, and some of us still go back and forth.

Cycles can get pretty messed up after a d&c, I had one in April and my cycle came quick, but my lp and length was a bit irregular for about 3 months or so. I dont even think I o'd the first month, and probably even the second month. Praying that you get regular quick and find yourself lucky to be pg again with hardly no wait.
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November 20th, 2009, 04:54 PM
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We meet again! My D&C is tomorrow. I hope you start your period by Thanksgiving! Charting and temping is my Bible. If you decide to and have any questions let me know. I actually like doing it.
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November 20th, 2009, 05:03 PM
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Thanks ladies!

And Angela, there are definitely too many people from the June DDC around Good luck with your D&C. (People had told me it wasn't an easy process, but mine went extremely smooth and I didn't have any issues. Hopefully you won't either!) I might be hitting you up soon with questions on charting/temping if things don't seem to get back to normal!
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November 20th, 2009, 05:23 PM
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I posted on the other thread too but I wanted to welcome you and tell you that I'm very sorry for your loss. I tried temping and charting and it drove me crazy. So I just go by my CM and OPK's. I hope you get your sticky BFP soon.
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November 20th, 2009, 07:26 PM
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Thanks Katie. I think I remember you from the NTNP board?
It's nice to have some familiar faces in here. (Though, the reason to be here isn't a good one)
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November 20th, 2009, 08:25 PM
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Krista I am so sorry for your loss.. HUGS. Welcome to the board... You are always welcomed here. I do hope your stay is brief and you can move move on to PAL (Pregnancy after loss) I wish you a quick BFP!
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November 21st, 2009, 06:29 AM
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Krista- Welcome... and so sorry to hear about your loss. I can definitely say that my cycles were somewhat out of whack, but are back to normal now. I plan to try charting (maybe) if I can figure it out. I pretty much know when I "O" because I have the pains. You will find great support here... hopefully your time in this forum will be short lived and you will get a BFP soon!
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November 21st, 2009, 07:38 AM
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Welcome to our group Krista. We are a very close group and are always willing to welcome any new members. I am so sorry for your loss. Please jump in and start posting and feel free to ask us any questions. I don't think that anything is off limits!

I'm Kimberley. I had a m/c in April of last year and I'm still TTC.
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November 21st, 2009, 08:53 AM
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Hugs Krista. You are very welcome here. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and DH have a lot of fun, and get a "surprise" in the near future. I look forward to getting to know you!
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November 21st, 2009, 08:55 AM
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Thanks for all the warm welcomes ladies! I really appreciate it. I'll be jumping in soon!
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