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November 29th, 2009, 03:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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OK ladies... Cycle 3.... And we are down one..... Hopefully a few more in our group will have some more BFP's and than I can kick more of my ladies out of this cycle group  !!!!
OK Santa.... Bring us some BFP's!!!!!
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November 29th, 2009, 04:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Cool, a new thread! Thanks Kary. It is time we get out of here! I hope the clomid works for you and that the side effects ease up.
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November 30th, 2009, 05:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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hey gals, i posted this in the other thread too, cause this one was lower than the other, so i'm reposting here too. been busy with family in town for the holiday, but they left last night and house is back to quiet. I feel so tired from the holiday!!!
i truly am looking forward to this next cycle!!! can't believe i'm saying that, but I really am... we are trying clomid AND femara together this cycle. i was told that there has been some great success using both together. so we will see... i'm going to google it later and see what i can find. i think we''re getting to the end of our rope here ladies. we will never give up, but possibly stop the "trying" aspect. that will be very hard for me to do. I think we talked about three more cycles and then hanging up the opks/monitor/temping - not a bad thing...
I feel like God is telling me that we should keep trying and that success will eventually come to us, but we are both tired of this whole journey!!! some friends of mine got married in june and they announced their bfp yesterday. it was like another kick in the gutt!!! oh well sorry for rambling, just needing some guidance... thanks for all your support ladies and krystal, get outta here!!! we will miss you girl - best of luck and come back and update us on your great progress!! hugs
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November 30th, 2009, 06:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Well, I will be the resident cheerleader this cycle. I have 8 more days of progesterone. AF has two weeks after I stop the progesterone to show and if she doesn't, then I have to go back to see my Dr., which puts me at the week of Christmas. Most likely I will wait until the week after Christmas to make the appt., since I will all ready be off work.
I am actually very OK with this. If we have to wait until Jan. to try again, it will give us a break from the stress over the Holidays and end of January TTC = end of Oct. due date, which works much better for my job (My boss would totally not care, but we have some huge deadlines in Oct. and a lot of work leading up to the deadlines). It would also only put me at 10 weeks on March 21st, which is when we are running the LA Marathon and Half.
OK ladies - Come Jan. I want to be the only one left in this group, so you all need to get busy!
Kat.
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November 30th, 2009, 07:31 AM
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Kary - hopefully you will be getting kicked out of this cycle group around Christmas time.
And of course I want to see BFP's from everyone else too.
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November 30th, 2009, 09:52 AM
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Missy... I was sitting here thinking... It was 7 months... since my 2nd m/c... when I got my BFP... So you are at that mark... I am praying that this is your cycle!!! Come on BFP!
Carrie.. Hopefully you guys can kick me out... But this is only my first cycle of clomid.. I don't think it will happen this cycle. But I would like a Christmas Miracle!! For all of us!!
Kat... Well yea for getting to the end of the Progesterone!!! I hope this works for you.. AF shows... and it is the last time you see her for 9 months!!!
And LYNDA!!! YEA for a plan! I can tell you... 17 cycles has taken a toll on me... three losses... tests, tests, and more tests... I can understand getting rid of the OPK's Temping, and all... If I wasn't such a control freak... I need to know.. even though I KNOW... if I BD 5 days before the "14th" and 5 days after..... I would totally be covered.. But I love to see FF give me cross hairs.. I love to see my temps got up... I hate to see them go down.. I am getting to the point... were I think we (dh and I) have to have the next step talk.... next month it will be a year and half of trying....
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November 30th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm still on Cycle #2. I think the HSG totally threw my body out of whack. My temps are all over the place and I can't confirm that I even O'ed. AF is due tomorrow but who knows if she will show or not. All I want is for this cycle to be over so we can start fresh next cycle.
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November 30th, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Oh Kim... Hopefully she will show.. and than you can get that Christmas/New Year BFP!!!
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November 30th, 2009, 05:41 PM
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Hello to everyone here  I just wish we weren't all here. Hopefully this cycle will have a bunch of us kicked out lol.
Kary, I'm staying very very hopeful for you this cycle and praying that Santa has that big fat BFP in your stocking.
Lynda, I hope that the clomid & femara combo is what seals the deal for you  Your attitude is wonderful and I admire that (((HUGS)))
Kat, I hope everything falls into place for you. A Jan BFP sounds perfect
Kim, as much as I hate saying that I hope af shows for any of us... I hope she appears soon and that you can get busy with a fresh new cycle (((HUGS)))
Me: I've been down in the dumps the last few days. The thought of Christmas and spending a few days with my MIL is getting to me  . But am feeling much better today and very hopeful for this cycle. I O'ed very early on my last cycle (CD 8) and so far am showing no signs of O yet. So that makes me happy, I'm hoping to have a more normal cycle this time. I'm all ready with OPK's, Pre Seed... and all the other goodies in my stash
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November 30th, 2009, 09:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hello Ladies Im not sure if this is where Im suppose to be...Somebody tell me!! How do I know?? This is my 3 or 4 cycle TTC depends on how you look at it. But let me know if I need to go into different group
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November 30th, 2009, 10:51 PM
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Jessica.... You are on CD8... You belong with us girl! WELCOME to the COOLEST Cycle Group on TTAL!
Lorna... BREAK out that stash! I hope this is your cycle!
I can't wait to KICK YOU ALL OUT OF THIS CYCLE GROUP!!!
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November 30th, 2009, 11:31 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
I can't wait to KICK YOU ALL OUT OF THIS CYCLE GROUP!!!
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You need to come with us!
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December 1st, 2009, 04:34 AM
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Veteran
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i guess i belong here too im cd 11 right now and waiting to O it usually happens between day 17 and 21 for me but since the m/c my cycles have been crazy so well see i also took soy isoflavones this cycle so im waiting to see if i O eariler keeping my fingers crossed
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December 1st, 2009, 06:22 AM
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morning gals!! It's sunny here today, which hasn't happened in awhile. I was starting to feel a bit depressed with all the grey!! but today has perked me up!!
How is everyone doing? Ladies we have to move into our ddc's!!! So positive thinking this cycle!!!
Kat, I hope stopping the progesterone brings on your AF!! We don't want you to be the only one left here!! We will come and visit you daily and then you can join us all by getting outta here!!! but i'm praying the progesterone does the job quickly!!! HUGS girl!
Kary, how is the clomid treating you?
Kitkat, welcome!!! soy isoflavens really screwed with my cycle when I tried it. I hope you have MUCH better luck than me!!!
missy, i see you're getting ready to O!!! good luck girl, and be busy busy busy
Jessica, welcome and I hope this is YOURS and all of our cycle!!!
Lorna, common girl, don't think about the MIL, think about all the other wonderful things the holidays bring - like your BFP!!! and mine too!!!
Carrie, we are all going to get our bfps this cycle!!! it's our time to shine!
Kim, maybe the hsg played with your cycle and a BFP is in order????? huh???? I hope the witch doesn't show and a second pink line does!!!
Ok gals, lets start thinking positively positive!!! then we can all get our POSITIVES!!
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December 1st, 2009, 07:42 AM
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I'm probably not going to be posting much this cycle. I'm having a hard time with the holidays and Eli's due date coming up (12/4) so I am lurking a lot but may not be posting much. I'm hoping to see lots of Christmas BFP miracles.
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December 1st, 2009, 11:20 AM
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I'm still mostly MIA. AF did show, today is CD 3. I'll start my final round of Clomid tonight. I don't know how often I'll be able to drop in and keep you updated, but I will when I can. Hopefully I have my laptop back by Dec. 18th at the latest. UGH, that seems so far away! lol
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December 1st, 2009, 11:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Stephanie - it is great to hear from you! I hope your computer comes back sooner.
Carrie - I hear ya about the DD, mine was last week ((Hugs))... I hope out of no where you end up with a suprise BFP this month!
Kary - Hi! I hope the clomid effects are wearing off. See you this weekend!
Jessica - Welcome!
Lynda - I love the positive attitude you are having. It is actually contagious. Thanks for brightening up the place!
Lorna - How are you feeling? The holidays are supposed to be fun but can be overwhelming at times.
I think I o'ed this am which would be awesome as we BD'd less than 2 days ago  Oh .... the fun 2ww where I drive myself and all of you crazy!
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December 1st, 2009, 02:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Kitkat!!!! WELCOME! I'm glad you jumped in!!!
Carrie... HUGS... DD are so hard.. it is filled with so many... "I Should's" I should be holding my baby, I should be in labor, I should. I should, I should.... It is so unfair... HUGS I am so sorry you have to face this without your Eli..
Lynda... I have good feelings for you... You BFP is close! UGG Clomid.. went OK.. only real side effect was the constand feeling of going to bawl my eyes out.. I was a little tired-er at work last night... But I really don't think I count the cycle of side effects since I was dealing with so much.. with my dad, Thanksgiving, my DS (who has been giving us a run for our money) So I'm not counting to high on this cycle... so Next cycle.. if they keep me on the Clomid.. I will get a feeling if they were side effects..
Stephanie! WB.. (for the stop by  ) Can't wait for you to get back in the swing here on JM.. Just intime for the 2ww!!! WHOO HOO
And Missy! I hope those little swimmers are going to town as we speak!! I can't wait to hear the BFP news!!!
OK Ladies I had this Blinkie made for us!!
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December 1st, 2009, 02:16 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I love that blinkie, I'm totally stealing it.
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December 1st, 2009, 05:43 PM
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TTC # 1
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Carrie, sending you many (((HUGS))) I too hope that you have a great big surprise BFP for Christmas.
Missy, yay for O'ing... hoping that this is a very speedy 2WW for you  we are ready for some Christmas BFP's to start rolling in
Kary, sorry you have been through sooo much recently, I hope you have a much better month this time (((HUGS))) and I pray that you get your BFP on the first round of Clomid and don't have to find out about side effects  Really cute blinkie!!! Thank you.
Lynda, for sure this is going to be our BFP month!!!! I'm trying to not think about MIL lol, it's all my own fault for letting her get to me...  but I'll not let it get to me anymore
Stephanie, I hope you get your laptop back long before the 18th, it's so horrible not having your internet when your used to it (((HUGS))). I'm hoping and praying this this is your cycle,,,come onnnn Clomid!!!
 Jessica and Kitkat, this is a great group... your going to love it here
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Cycle 36: Immune system protocol - 10mg Prednisone, 10mg Claritin, 20mg Pepcid x2.
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