December 7th, 2009, 04:43 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Alabama
Posts: 6,806
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Hope you don't mind me joining you, we're not officially going to ttc but we are NTNP, at least that is my plan. I'm Tammy and found out that my baby died Nov 3rd. Had a d&c the following Friday. Ended up having a clot and tissue left so I had a repeat d&c this past Friday, 4 weeks after the first one. It is frustrating because I'm ready to heal so I can have cycles again. The doc is pretty sure the baby died because the baby implanted on my c/s scar. He can't say for sure, but we knew early that baby implanted low and with everything else, it fits, so its an educated guess. It's annoying to me that we had to repeat the d&c, I'm sure it set me back in getting my cycle, idk, but I guess if the other stuff wasn't removed that would have set me back more. I'm just ready to get back on track.
Dh isn't as ready as I am. He is afraid of another loss and wants me to finish school. At this point, I'm not so determined to get pregnant again but I want the possibility. I feel hopeful when I think about having another baby. If he tells me he is just totally against NTNP, then we'll have to address it more, but right now he seems ok with it. I've not had trouble conceiving before so it comforts me to know that I could be pregnant in a few months. I really hope to get a BFP by the time my edd gets here.
I look forward to getting to know you girls.
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Tammy, mommy to:
Jessica(16), Daniel(15), Anna(12), Kaylee(10), Emily(8), Alyssa(7), Eli(6), Nathan(4), Natalie(3), Bethany(1)
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