Kayla - I agree. I originally joined a DDC on WTE and it was crazy, mob hormone fueled mentality. I quietly left that board and lurked until I found JM! After my loss, I never even thought about going anywhere else - this (being JM, TTCAL is my temp home) is home. I do lurk on other M/C and TTC boards from time to time and there is no where near the consideration and kindness that I get from here.
I think some has to do with all the exceptional hosts on JM - I don't know the screening process, but they do an excellent job.
Are you in a cycle group? If not, you should join - I

my cycle buddies!
Kat.