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December 9th, 2009, 07:23 AM
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I looked at the calender today... next Tuesday December 15th will be a year since I lost my son. And then of course I started looking at all the sonogram pictures I have and I just lost it. Its so hard missing my little one and knowing I should have him here with me right now. And since I lost him I had another loss and I just don't if I can do this anymore. I'm sorry ladies I'm a downer right now.
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December 9th, 2009, 07:36 AM
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We understand, but I'm really sorry that you're going through such a rough time right now hun! HUGS! xx
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December 9th, 2009, 08:11 AM
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So sorry you are having a rough day. Keeping you in my T & P.
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December 9th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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I am so sorry sweetie. I wish I could be there to give you big hug and let you cry on my shoulder.
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December 9th, 2009, 08:56 AM
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I understand, (((HUGS)))
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December 9th, 2009, 11:11 AM
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Big big HUGS! I know how you're feeling. I hate that you're in this position and I'm sending you lots of warmth!
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December 9th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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I wish there was more we could do for you! I am so sorry you have to go through this!
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December 9th, 2009, 05:21 PM
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Thank you ladies! You all always know just what to say!!
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December 9th, 2009, 08:05 PM
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Katie I'm so sorry that you're having a really bad day, I sure wish I could offer some kind words, a hug and a shoulder for you to lean on! You're a strong lady or else you would not be here right now!!!
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December 10th, 2009, 03:17 AM
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Thank you Celena! You ladies here help me out more than you'll ever know.
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December 10th, 2009, 05:36 AM
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Oh, Katie!!! I have been & will continue praying for you!
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December 10th, 2009, 05:48 AM
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Thank you hun! As we all know some days are harder than others. Yesterday just happened to be one of the hard ones.
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December 10th, 2009, 02:59 PM
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Katie how are you doing today? Any better?!

I sure hope today was WWWAAAYYY BETTER!!!!

I had a bad day yesterday too, I was in hysterics off and on all day long.
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December 11th, 2009, 02:01 AM
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Oh Katie I am sorry I have been thinking of you sweetie it's not easy.
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December 11th, 2009, 03:08 AM
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Thank you Charm. And hun you do not have to hid your ticker from me. I love watching yours as well as the others ladies. It does give me hope. And thank you Celena. Yesterday was alot better. DH also brought me home roses He always know how to make me smile. I hope your day went better to. Hugs.
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December 11th, 2009, 02:08 PM
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Katie thinking about you.... I really think the count down.. is worse than the actual day. Not that is it not hard... But you have the anxiety... about what that day will bring, how will you feel?... I know I had a hard time laughing.. or doing anything enjoyable.. since I felt like I was dishonoring my baby.. I will be thinking about you on Tuesday.. HUGS!
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December 11th, 2009, 02:11 PM
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Thank you so much Kary... I think its going to be the same for me. I'm going to work on Tuesday just so I'm not sitting around thinking as much.
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