[HopefulMommy81]

Hi ladies! Well, I'm 7 DPO today, and got a BFN, which isn't surprising, but I just kept hoping that maybe my bean would implant early and I could see it early--fat chance, right? I'm really not that down about it. I had a big moment of weakness/discouragment last night- totally felt out and depressed, but I woke up feeling more hopeful so I'm glad. Anyways, before I start rambling on completely, I have a concern/question that I hope I'm not alone in. So, of course, during this 2WW, because we actually BD'ed at the right time and everything, I am analyzing every little twinge or feeling. So I woke up today with this abdominal soreness that I knew I had had before. I looked back at my posts and I had it at 6 DPO my BFP cycle. So of course I'm all super-excited and hopeful. But then I started thinking- something went wrong with that pregnancy, and I miscarried at 4 weeks. So maybe all of those symtoms weren't good and what if this was the one that made it bad? I know that that is probably so irrational but I worry all the same. Does anyone else go through and have you gone through this similar situation/though process? I made a point not to look up my EDD if I am pregnant, but FF did it for me- and it's one day after my dad's birthday and 2 days before DH's birthday. Jason (DH) made a comment once about how it'd be funny if we had a baby with a birthday close to one of my parents' birthdays because his mom and I actually share a birthday. OK, I think I'm done rambling, I just needed to express this, I guess. Oh, geez, and now I'm tearing up- OK, off to shop online for Christmas gifts!!!

[Kary♥RN]

Jacque... I hope this is your cycle... so this rollar coaster can be over for you.... I know how frustrating it is.. I always go back to see if i had simular "symptoms" or temps, or just that feeling... I know it is hard.. But I hope your BFP shows this month! HUGS!

[KDD]

Jacquie - you know that 7 DPO is too early to test!! I never had any IPS before we were TTC now I would consider it strange if I didn't have it!

I noticed that last time you got your BFP at 10 DPO, maybe if you wait a few more days you'll get your BFP!

[*MomofO&Nat*]

Yes, I seem to compare my m/c BFP symptoms with my BFP symptoms from my son. If anything starts to be too similar to the m/c pregnancy, I start to freak out and worry that I will lose the pg (if I am pg). But I haven't been since the m/c, it's just the dpo kill me with all the weird symptoms and what it all means. So yes, I do know what you mean. I hope when I am pg again, it mirrors my healthy pregnancy to a T so I don't have to worry myself sick.

[HopefulMommy81]

I know it was too early to test, but I just couldn't resist. I just get paranoid with symptoms or lacktherof- both actually. We'll see! It's going to be a long 3 days more! Thanks for all of your support, ladies! I wouldn't make it without you!

[alethia]

Just wait a few more days! Hopefully you'll get your BFP!! Try not to over-analyze symptoms - i know it's super had not to. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!