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  #1  
December 14th, 2009, 09:39 AM
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My grandmother passed away yesterday and tomorrow is a year since my son became an angel. I'm having a horrible time. I had to go to the doctor for chest pains and the doctor said I am having anxiety attacks. It all just seems so much for me right now.
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December 14th, 2009, 10:41 AM
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Awww, Katie, I'm so, so sorry. I'm sending you big hugs, hun. Please take care of yourself. You and your family are in my t&p.
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December 14th, 2009, 10:44 AM
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Oh I am so sorry for everything you're going through!!! You and your family are definetly in my prayers. Let us know if you need anything!
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December 14th, 2009, 10:48 AM
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i'm so sorry you are going through such a hard time right now. The holidays can be so hard, esp if you've lost people around this time. Just take it one day at a time. And if that seems impossible...take it one minute at a time. It's ok to lean on people for support. And we'll be here for you.
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December 14th, 2009, 11:29 AM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through! You are in my T&P!
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December 14th, 2009, 11:42 AM
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Thank you ladies. I know even when I'm having a bad day I always have your support.
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December 14th, 2009, 12:03 PM
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Aw Katie I am SO Sorry... I know there's nothing I can say to make it right, but I wanted to offer you a warm hug. Thinking of you and your family.
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December 14th, 2009, 12:50 PM
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December 14th, 2009, 12:58 PM
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December 14th, 2009, 01:35 PM
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Oh Katie I am so sorry for your loss. My best friend lost her grandmother recently and I know how much she struggled. *hugs for you* Take care hun
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December 14th, 2009, 01:58 PM
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Hugs to you! I'm sorry you're having a hard time - that's a lot to deal with. Again, many hugs!
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December 14th, 2009, 02:55 PM
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Katie, honey, I'm so sorry

Gosh there is just so much going on at this particular moment for you sure wish there was something I could say or do to help you in any way feel a little (allot) better!

You can and will get thru this, one step at a time! We're here all here to help you get thru this tough time... are the holiday's lifting your spirits any? Try going on a ride to look at the Christmas lights with DH or perhaps make a little remberance Christmas ornament for your angel as a part of your healing?

Katie, all I can say is I'm sorry and that I wish that I could make you feel better!
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December 14th, 2009, 03:59 PM
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Oh Katie I am so sorry to hear about your Grandmother. And Anngelversary is so hard.
Anxiety attacks are horrible I know I have had them. Take care of yourself and know that we are here for you.
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December 14th, 2009, 04:06 PM
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I'm so sorry! Hugs!!
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December 14th, 2009, 04:38 PM
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(((HUGS))) My heart breaks for you and your family. I wish there was some way to help relieve your pain. Please try to take care of yourself. Many well wishes, prayers and thoughts for you and your family. (((HUGS)))
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December 14th, 2009, 05:28 PM
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So sorry to hear about everything you're going through Katie. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts & prayers. HUGS! xx
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December 14th, 2009, 05:58 PM
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December 14th, 2009, 08:23 PM
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Katie I am so sorry... I know what you are going through.... I lost my grandmom March... it was two months after my second loss.. It was so hard... Just having the feeling.. of loss, after loss, after loss...... If you need to talk, vent, scream... PM me.. Sometimes you just need someone to listen... who knows what you are going through... HUGS
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December 15th, 2009, 03:11 AM
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Thank you ladies so much. Today is one year since I lost my son. I woke up this morning and for some reason I just know he is with me. And the last thing my mom told my grandma before she passed was to give him a hug and kiss because we never got to. I know she is.
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