I hear ya! I have been here since September and I still don't know what triphasic, IC or crosshairs on a chart mean. But the girls are so nice here, if you ask someone will answer. I just try to get the general gist of the whole TTC process and all the details I guess will become clear in time. By the way, the cycle buddies thing is what time in your monthly cycle you are in. I guess once you have your first period after m/c, you join the group where most of the girls in it are on the same CD (cycle day) as you. I am on CD 5, so most of the girls in my group have their periods right now and are gearing up to O. I use Fertility Friend website a little which has helped explain a lot of the lingo on here. Hope that helps, we are all in this together!