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December 21st, 2009, 03:25 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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BIG FREAKING FAT NEGATIVE! I just can't get into Christmas this year. Last year this is when I lost my son and now this year a BFN.  I'm angry. I am angry with my body, with life, with everything.
UPDATE: I was thinking about testing this morning but I was up twice in the night to pee and get a drink. (I have been so thirsty). Yesterday morning and again this morning I am feeling so nauseous. Do some people not get a BFP until later?
Last edited by .:Shortcake:.; December 22nd, 2009 at 05:32 AM.
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December 21st, 2009, 04:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry sweetie. I know how frustrating all of this can be. I wish there was something I could say or do to make it easier and make you feel better.
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December 21st, 2009, 05:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ditto, what missy said!!! keep the faith!! it will happen for us all, in God's time!!! hugs to you, cause I know how bfns suck!!!
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December 21st, 2009, 05:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thank you ladies. I know it will happen in God's time. But right now I'm just having a hard time.
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December 21st, 2009, 06:07 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I am so sorry, hon. It really really sucks and that is all I can say. I totally get how you feel, it is just such a let down and what a crappy time of year to feel sad. Thinking of you!
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December 21st, 2009, 06:12 AM
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Mom of 4
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 Sorry about the BFN!!!
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December 21st, 2009, 06:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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December 21st, 2009, 12:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Katie I am so sorry hugs... I wish I could take all your pain away, and make everything all better. I am sorry I can't HUGS, HUGS, HUGS...
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December 21st, 2009, 01:42 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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(((hugs)))
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December 21st, 2009, 02:38 PM
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Katie, I'm sorry I hope and pray that 12dpo is too early, there's still a chance... right?
I'm sorry that it's hard right now... 
I'm sorry that your sons angelversay was so hard and the bad days, not that it's a huge help but I certainly hope and pray for you all the time honey!
Can't say that I'm not there with you in not "feeling Christmas", because then I would be lying.
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December 21st, 2009, 02:45 PM
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HUGS! I'm sorry hun.
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December 21st, 2009, 04:42 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS! So sorry Katie. I hope things get easier on you in the coming days! Thinking of you.
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December 21st, 2009, 08:59 PM
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Lovin life and family
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So sorry hun.
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December 22nd, 2009, 04:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'am so sorry sweetie. Tons of hugs and baby dust to you!
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December 22nd, 2009, 06:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Yes katie some people don't get postives until later. I have never had one before 13dpo!
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December 22nd, 2009, 06:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Dont give up just yet I tested at 12 DPO and got a BFN and tested again at 14 dpo and even then it was faint. I did a digi at 16 DPO and got my first good positive. When i showed my 14 DPO test to DH he argued with my that it was negative because it was so light so dont give up just yet!
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December 22nd, 2009, 09:29 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry about the BFN. Hugs for you!
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December 22nd, 2009, 10:03 AM
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I understand you feeling that way.. I think we all feel that way at a point.. I wish you luck.. With both of my last miscarriages I didn't even get a faint BFP until 14 DPO.. With my son I didn't find out till I was 6 weeks along and my line was super dark so I don't know how to help you..
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December 22nd, 2009, 10:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry sweetie!
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December 22nd, 2009, 11:06 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ♥Shortcake♥
UPDATE: I was thinking about testing this morning but I was up twice in the night to pee and get a drink. (I have been so thirsty). Yesterday morning and again this morning I am feeling so nauseous. Do some people not get a BFP until later?
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I've heard that the average day to get a BFP is 13.5 & if I'm not mistaken several ladies on this board (I think Penelope was one of them but now don't quote me on that b/c I could be wrong) got their BFP on CD 15. 
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