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December 21st, 2009, 11:57 AM
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So after the miscarriage, I just had a 26 day cycle. Usually I ovulate about day 9-11 and have a 16 day luteal phase, giving me cycles that are 25-27 days.

This time I ovulated on day 15, had an 11 day luteal phase, whatever...I ovulated and got my period 27 days after the miscarriage.

Now that I'm back to normal, I think I want to try again this month. We're moved into the house, I'm just unpacking and setting up this week...ewww then I can't drink at New Years...but why not try???

Because my OB will kill me. Why should I care what he thinks? I mean, he is an OB...but people have D&Cs and go on to get pregnant 2 weeks after. I wasn't ready for that...I wanted to see a normal cycle first...but now I've had one.

We were supposed to wait this cycle out, then the next one, then TTC. Which would mean February. DH says just wait this one and try in January. I brought up trying NOW to DH but football was on and the answer I got was him droning on about how the Lions suck. Well DUH. And I hate repeating myself. So I haven't asked again.

This period is just as fun as the rest of them have been since I went off the pill (heavier than ON the pill, which I seriously miss) so I'd say I'm totally back to normal.

Chances are, I won't get pregnant anyway...I never have gotten pregnant on the first try...why start now? But if I don't try I can't even say I tried.

And riding the crazy train is FUN =)

I've had three low temps in a row since I started my period, I am still so excited and proud of myself for getting back to normal LOL!!!

What do you think, should I do it? I guess it's up to DH but should I bring it up to him (not during football) again?
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December 21st, 2009, 12:00 PM
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I say go for it . Unless there is a real medical reason your OB wants you to wait.
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December 21st, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Ditto to Carrie
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December 21st, 2009, 01:39 PM
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Go for it!!! At the very least, you'll have fun practicing/trying, right?
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December 21st, 2009, 03:09 PM
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Go for it!!!
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December 21st, 2009, 04:31 PM
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to everything everyone else has said! And I think you should bring it up to DH again, but definitely not during football
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