[jjc99]

Waiting for...anything...is frustrating!

I had my D&C on Dec 4. I started temping/charting around Dec 8 or 9. My chart isn't really showing me anything. Matter of fact, it seems to be all over (to me). DH and I BD on the 13 and 14. I haven't seen any indication of my ovulating, or not. My CM has been dry to sticky since the D&C , but no EWCM. When i was at the OB's office on the 14th, I said I was having some weird cramps/light pains just on my left side, like possible ovulation cramps. OB said that I was probably not O'ing right then, but could be in a couple days. (She did do a quick internal exam, so she could see what was going on). I did take a ept this morning = BFN. but it could till be too early to tell.

What's so frustrating is there could be some tiny chance I could be pg...but a really really good chance that I'm still just waiting for AF to arrive and my cycle to normal-out. So, even MORE frustrating - I'd like to enjoy a cocktail or whatever over the holdiays, but I don't want to in case I am pg!!!! I don't want to do anything "wrong" in case I am pg. But, I'm probably not, so drinking wouldn't really matter. I'd hate to miss out on any festivities with friends/family because I *may*, but probably, not be pg.

UGH!!!!! this isn't really a huge rant as much as confusion and frustration and laughing at myself and my body and cycle. Waiting to be "normal" stinks! lol


Have any of you O'd w/o the obvious CM indicators or temps? Or does either/both need to be there to O or become PG?

[Kary♥RN]

I am so sorry you are feeling so frustrated.... HUGS. By looking at your chart.. it would say no you have not ovulated. It looks like you *might* get cross hairs for Ovulation on the 19th or the 20th.... **IF** your temps keep rising... but since you put something that gave you the open circles... It might not be too accurate. You can be one of those ladies.... who does not ovulate the cycle after a M/C.. I am so sorry that you have to go through this... HUGS.

[Justjessie]

I never have CM and I certainly didn't this month! My temps looked like yours except they went down earlier and spiked up about day 15, followed by a drop when I got my period.

Your temps dropped down from after the m/c...maybe you haven't O'd yet and you will and finish out the cycle and it'll just be a longer cycle.

We will be frustrated together!!! And I'm probably going to turn my head the other way this holiday season and drink anyway. A glass of wine won't hurt. And chances are, I won't be pregnant anyway.

[mommy x 10]

I'm frustrated with you! I had my d&c on Nov 6th and then had to have a repeat d&c on Dec 4th. so I have not had a period since the micarriage. I've just started taking my temps maybe a little over a week, I'm still not sure how to tell about them. My CM has been all over, even watery at times but nothing I would consider EW. I have started feeling nauseous over the last few days, so of course that makes me hope I could be pregnant but I doubt it. If I'm not pregnant, then I wish would come on so I can know where I am and have something to go by.

[alethia]

i'm sorry you're so frustrated! I feel your frustration. I hope things become 'normal' for you quickly!