Here's my update - So I thought for certain this was going to be a chemical pregnancy because of the spotting (particularly the red spot i had) but the spotting stopped and my BFP' are getting stronger lines - so maybe just maybe this one is trying to stick!!!!!! I am soooooo hoping. I'm going to go to the doctors on Monday to have them draw my level and see if a) my numbers are going up and b) if anything is off. I'm trying to be reservedly excited that the spotting stopped since i already felt so crushed about loosing it.
Here are my tests:
here is Dec 22nd (9DPO)
then here is a pic of the following days: - sorry it's kinda bad lighting - pretty yellow so it's harder to see the lines in photo then IRL
Top one - super light line Dec 23rd (spotting,) Dec 24th - a little stronger (spotting - but it stopped) Then Dec 25th (no spotting) and another one on Dec 25th (the other answer test) 12 DPO