baby fever! wwyd? x-posted

lindseyp1019 · #1 December 28th, 2009, 10:25 AM

omg, my baby fever is in full drive. I don't think its ever been this bad. If I go with my doctors recomendations, we can't start ttc for 2 more months

I feel like I can't wait 2 more months to start trying, I want a baby NOW. Did you all wait 3 months before ttc after a loss, or did you start ttc right away? DH says he wants to start trying now, I don't know, my heart says yes but my head says no. what would you do?

Kary♥RN · #2 December 28th, 2009, 10:28 AM

We were given the go ahead.. after all of our losses... We never waited... Did he tell you that thier was a medical reason for you to wait??? If not.. "ooppps" happens.. and if you are mentally ready.. what is your Dr going to say... "Bad girl" for not listening?? If you were cleared medically, and he is not running any tests that he wants the results back on before you start again... I would say when you are ready.. Go for it.. HUGS

Justjessie · #3 December 28th, 2009, 10:35 AM

My OB said wait after my loss...I waited until I had my period once, charted ever since the m/c to see if I was "normal" again...once I determined that I am, I'm back to TTC. He thinks "emotionally" I need more time.

Last I checked, he was a guy, and he has NO IDEA what I need. As long as you feel like it (and I DID feel like I needed to see normal signs again so I did that, too, for my own peace of mind) go for it!!!

lindseyp1019 · #4 December 28th, 2009, 10:44 AM

Well after my first loss my doc said wait 3 months to heal emotionally, that was back in April. Now, after this ectopic my OB says wait 3 months and my peri said he prefers if I wait 6-12 months since my body has been though so much, 2 miscarriages and an ectopic in the last 9 months, it needs a break, but the peri did say since we are on a time limit with DH being in the military we can start trying after 3 months. I know some doctors say just wait for emotional reasons, some say you don't need to wait, some say wait until you have one normal period (which I have had). So I really don't know... I know that my doctor won't yell at me, but I don't want to risk having another miscarriage because I didn't wait 3 months kwim? I just can't stand it, I want to be pregnant SO badly.