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January 1st, 2010, 07:33 AM
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Really Just Angela
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I think the first two weeks are long!!!
I'm on CD 14...STILL HAVE NOT O'd YET!!! Took another OPK today and it was totally positive...my cervix is still super high...temps are still low...already told DH to make plans tonight to be in bed...he's on board...
So let me get this straight. Now seeing a test line as dark as the control line this morning...I am going to O in 24-26 hours.
So tomorrow morning, when I test, I MAY have another totally dark line? Should we then BD again tomorrow night? Assuming my temp doesn't go up...if my temp goes up I know we're done.
I think I'll be done with whatever by Sunday. THEN the crazy wait begins.
I'm CD 14 today. I'd love to O on CD 14 so when they give me an EDD it's accurate. I was dying last time saying my EDD when I knew it was 5 days earlier since I O'd 5 days earlier.
Whee...ringing in the New Year with a bang, so to speak =)
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January 1st, 2010, 12:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I definitely think that waiting to O is more stressful than the 2WW.
I would keep BD'ing until FF confirms that you have O'ed.
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January 1st, 2010, 12:11 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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IDK, waiting to O doesn't seem so long to me. It's the time when I can do whatever I like and not really have to worry about anything. In those 2 weeks: I can get my hair done, have a glass of wine or 2, smoke, and not have to worry if I'm pregnant. It's the 2ww after O'ing that makes me insane. All the worries and concerns and waiting for a testing day!!! UGH!! I'm there now.. only 4DPO and I'm going nuts! Every little thing is making me wonder if this is our month. I wasn't going to obsess about it but POAS is so addictive and fun... I love it. I want to POAS so bad right now. There is one FRER in the bathroom and it's calling my name. Right now, it's a subtle whisper, but I know when it's closer to 10DPO it's going to be SCREAMING for me!!
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January 1st, 2010, 01:21 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I think the 2ww to Ovulation is longer than the 2 week to test (I have always gotten my + at 9dpo) SO it is not 2ww for me....
You may NOT have a + tomorrow.. depending on were in your surge you are.. I usally surge about 18 hours... (that is how long I get + OPK's).. So depending on when you test again.. and how early you tested when you got that +... KWIM??
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January 1st, 2010, 02:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I would BD tonight and tomorrow, and maybe even sunday....Might as well have fun with it lol....Usually the wait to O for me isn't bad because I would O at CD 13, but last cycle I didn't O till CD 24 or 25 and it was sooooo long, but at least I don't think every pain, cramp twtich might be because i'm pregnant, I think that's what makes the 2WW so hard.
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January 1st, 2010, 02:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I don't usually O until CD 19 or 20. So yeah, I think the first part of the cycleis longer for sure... but I still hate the 2ww more...
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January 1st, 2010, 02:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I definitely hate waiting to O more than waiting for AF. I guess it doesn't help that I ovulate on day 19 or later.
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January 1st, 2010, 02:55 PM
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Formerly theonlycay
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Dang I honestly feel like the whole month is long. The waiting to O, then being impatient to see if it actually worked, it is very annoying sometimes.
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January 1st, 2010, 04:32 PM
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Really Just Angela
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Caylynne...the whole month is long....ROTFLMAO...it really is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I POAS again just now, 12 hours later...still strong, but a titch lighter. Going to do it tonight and I really think my temp will be up in the morning. If not, I think we're still golden for another day. We BD every other day.
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January 1st, 2010, 09:40 PM
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Formerly theonlycay
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That sounds like a good idea Angelkitty. Keeping my fingers crossed for you
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