The results of my test

brandimomof2 · #1 January 1st, 2010, 08:06 AM

I have had 3 times this week where I felt nauseated. My boobs are so sore.
So I tested this morning which is 5 days before AF is due. I am due on the 5th.
It was a BFN. I am so upset. I thought this was it. I just dont understand why its taking awhile again. Last time there was 7 or 8,mths of nothing. We took a break and then it happened the first mth back ttc. With my 2 daughters it happened on the first try. After my m/c we waited awhile to ttc. We started back ttc then took a 2 mth break so that I wouldnt risk being sick over Christmas. We have been back to ttc since Nov. It just seems like ttc a 3rd child has been such a huge journey. I should of had my baby Dec 11th. I am just so frustrated. I am 35 and not getting any younger.

I would normally get a bfp at the point I am at so I am not very hopeful this mth. Is it possible to get a later BFP than you normally have in previous pregnancies? I would be 10 dpo today. I think unless I dont have it right. But I had symptoms of o ing on day 14 which would make me 10 dpo.

Sometime I feel like I am not ment to have another one. I have often thought about adoption but dh really wants his own.

~InHisHands~ · #2 January 1st, 2010, 04:46 PM

I completely understand all that you are feeling. I'm almost 33 & not getting any younger.

It is def possible that it is still too early to tell. Several ladies on this board actually didn't get their BFPs till day 14 & 15 & I've read that the average to get a BFP is 13.5 so it is def possible you ARE pg but not showing up on a test yet.

GL!

.:Shortcake:. · #3 January 1st, 2010, 05:26 PM

I just wanted to say super big hugs! And yes it is possible to not get a BFP until later. Praying you get a BFP soon.

Kary♥RN · #4 January 1st, 2010, 06:07 PM

ditto to the age factor! I am 34.. I will be 35 May 1st.. so in 4 months. I never thought 17 cycles... and no living baby. We started trying in July.. BFP with in 4 months!... than again 2 months later... than it took another 7 months... Now I am going on 4 months since my last loss. It realy blows.. when you get this frustrated! HUGS... we know all to well what you are going through... I hope this cycle brings you a BFP!