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January 2nd, 2010, 12:57 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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It was a year ago today that I got my BFP for my little girl. I wounder if 2010 will give me a baby.. of just more BFP's that will end. At midnight I cried... thinking that a year ago... this was one of the happiest days.. and all I could think of was what 2009 was going to bring.. all the happiness of what was going to be........ that never happened. Thanks for listening...
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January 2nd, 2010, 01:05 PM
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*Amie*
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: UK
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 I'm sorry.. I can't imagine how I'll feel down the line on all of the aniversaries and special dates. Just b strong... I hope 2010 will bring good news for you soon
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January 2nd, 2010, 01:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Kary, Im so sorry about today  I got my very first BFP in Jan too, that ended in chemical pg. It will be one year on Jan 7 that my IUD came out, and it was ALMOST 1yr later that I had my IUD put back in, closing this long painful journey. I STILL dont know what my future holds for me, scarriest thing Ive ever encountered, and Ive been through breast cancer.
I read somewhere on here a quote, right before I took my JM break "Im only living from week to week. No more cylce to cycle, no more month to month. " When I started to feel this way, it took the edge off.
I pray that 2010 brings you the most beautiful memories of a life time. I pray this for all TTCAL girls, including myself every night.
lots of hugs and love today to you. Lori
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January 2nd, 2010, 01:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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(((Hugs)))
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 2nd, 2010, 01:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Hugs Kary! I know that this is super hard on you. I pray that you get your BFP this cycle and it helps to ease some of your pain. Remembering your precious Baby Girl.
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January 2nd, 2010, 01:53 PM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: In the 'burbs of Boston, MA
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So sorry, Kary that you are reliving this again. It is so hard when these dates come around. Thinking of you! Hugs!!
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January 2nd, 2010, 02:18 PM
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TTC # 1
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Michigan
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I'm thinking of you today and hope and pray that your pain can easy some (((HUGS))) I wish that 2010 is the year that brings you all the happiness in the world.
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Me: 37. DH: 46. TTC #1.
Unexplained infertility
Cycle 1 - Cycle 35: BFN
Cycle 36: Immune system protocol - 10mg Prednisone, 10mg Claritin, 20mg Pepcid x2.
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January 2nd, 2010, 02:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Southern PA
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I am so sorry Kary... I hope 2010 brings you the baby you so desire. ((Hugs))
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January 2nd, 2010, 02:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Alabama
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I'm so sorry. The other day, I was putting family b-days on the new calendar and felt so sad when I got to my angel baby's edd...it happens to be the day before our wedding anniversary. I also felt a wave of sadness looking at the old calendar at the date I found out our baby died. I guess some dates will be burned into our memories forever...
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January 2nd, 2010, 03:20 PM
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Really Just Angela
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I'm sorry you are feeling like this. I think 2010 is going to be a good year for all of us, though =)
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January 2nd, 2010, 04:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: TX
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So sorry. I hope and pray that you get your baby this year.
I couldnt help but think on Christmas morning that our baby should of been there with us. I was due Dec 11 and he/she would have been there with us that morning. Now he is with us in Heaven. I cant wait till I get there to meet him. I say him but I dont know for sure what the sex was. I just felt that maybe it was a boy.
I am sorry you are dealing with all of this. Dec was really hard for me.
May God give you peace.
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January 2nd, 2010, 05:23 PM
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Formerly theonlycay
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Salem, OR
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Oh Kary Big Hugs today. I will be thinking of you and your angel baby girl.
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January 2nd, 2010, 07:22 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
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I am so sorry Kary. My heart goes out to you today. A good cry is good for us all.
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January 2nd, 2010, 08:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Hugs Kary. SUcks that we have so many dates to get through this year. I really hope we both get some good this year and SOON too.
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January 2nd, 2010, 08:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Thank You ladies.... I know it is hard for all of us... It is nice to know I am not alone... even though I wish none of knew the pain of loss... HUGS and Thank you again.
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January 2nd, 2010, 09:16 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Kary I'm not sure that I could have the right words to say to show you how my heart reaches out to you and wishes so many things... including that 2010 brings you a healthy, happy, cemented pregnancy that is complete with a healthy baby in your & Tom's arms!!!
2009 was a pretty tough year for you and I keep you in my prayers that 2010 brings you so much joy, happiness & blessings. You're always close in my thoughts <3
You know everyone is here for you honey!
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January 3rd, 2010, 08:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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you know I understand how you are feeling totally! hugs sister!! i pray we both have a joyous 2010!! there is something about even years that I love! bigger hugs!
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January 4th, 2010, 06:12 AM
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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HUGS Kary!!! Jan 2nd 2009 was also the day I got my BFP with my first loss.
I just know that you will have a baby in 2010, so don't give up hope. This year will rock!!!!!!!
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January 4th, 2010, 09:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Canada
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I'm sorry, Kary
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