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January 3rd, 2010, 05:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: northern Indiana
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I lost the baby today. I was 5 weeks and 4 days. Started bleeding yesterday. It was nothing major so I just got into bed around 6pm and just took it easy all night. Woke this morning to lots of blood, and lots of clots. Way too much to still be pregnant. I'm over this.
I told Pat that I originally told him I'd never tell him "no" if he wanted a baby and I still feel that way, but I need a break. I've lost two babies in three months. I told him I need a few months to get back into shape and emotionally rest. He agreed that was a smart thing to do.
I'm not overly upset, I'm just sad and frustrated...
I'm not going to TTC until May or June. That's how I feel today. Pat really, really wants a baby so I have no idea what will happen. I'm not going to hang out here for right now, but I'll be back I promise. 
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~*~ Jessica ~*~
Mom to:
Madison Rey 11-24-2000
Cole Anthony 5-23-2002
Mia Annelise 3-29-2012
^angel^ 10wks, 2 days, D&C 12wks, 3 days 11-2-09
^angel^ 5wks, 5 days 1-2-10
^angel^ 11wks, 1 day 5-22-10 with D&C
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January 3rd, 2010, 06:09 AM
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TTC # 1
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Michigan
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Oh nooooo 
Jessica, I am so sorry, words can't even begin to describe. Please take good care of yourself right now, and take the time you need to heal and recover. I'll be thinking of you and Pat.
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Me: 37. DH: 46. TTC #1.
Unexplained infertility 
Cycle 1 - Cycle 35: BFN
Cycle 36: Immune system protocol - 10mg Prednisone, 10mg Claritin, 20mg Pepcid x2.
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January 3rd, 2010, 06:38 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Super big hugs hun! I am so sorry you are going through this again. We will be here when you return.
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January 3rd, 2010, 07:00 AM
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Brooke
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Oh no, Jessica. I'm so, so sorry.
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January 3rd, 2010, 07:53 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Columbus, OH
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Hugs Jessica. I'm sorry you're going through all of this. We'll be here when you need us, or when you're ready!
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January 3rd, 2010, 09:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry (((Hugs)))
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 3rd, 2010, 09:11 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Jessica I am so sorry... HUGS.. I know what you are feeling.... if you ever need to talk PM... I lost two babies in three months... it is so hard for IRL people to know what it is like... I know for me.. the guilt and hatred towards my body.. that I couldn't stay pregnat... What was I doing wrong and they ones around that stayed pregnant.. what did they do right?? I hope you stop back in... you don't have to leave.. you are welcomed even if you are no trying.. But if you can't stay I understand. HUGS
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January 3rd, 2010, 09:45 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry.
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Kimberly, wife to Jamie
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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January 3rd, 2010, 10:02 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Join Date: May 2009
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I am so so sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need. Big hugs!
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January 3rd, 2010, 10:47 AM
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Really Just Angela
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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Well, don't be a stranger to me, girl. I am sorry you are going through this again =(
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January 3rd, 2010, 11:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Jessica, I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)).
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January 3rd, 2010, 01:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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January 3rd, 2010, 01:23 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Jessica I'm extremely sorry really wish that wasn't happening to you again.
Never want to see anyone come back here under these circumstances, it's like the wound is gashed back open. You sound like you have a great husband that supports you in your decision to take care of you right now and get a rest to recoup. I really pray that you heal quickly physically and emotionally. But I'm so terribly sorry you're going thru this right now.
Having more than one loss, close together losses are very devastating. It happens way more often than anyone ever cares to talk about IRL. Sometimes I think I should have done what you're doing, (had 2 losses close) HAve to say tho, thank God for the ladies here! This is a great place and I hope that when you're ready that it happens quickly, safely, healthy and happily. Bless your heart and know if you need legs of support or shoulders to lean on; we're all here for you if/when you might need us! KUP if you feel up to it, please know you're in my thoughts and prayers... (all of ours)
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January 3rd, 2010, 05:38 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: northern Indiana
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Thanks everyone for your kind words. I really appreciate it.
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~*~ Jessica ~*~
Mom to:
Madison Rey 11-24-2000
Cole Anthony 5-23-2002
Mia Annelise 3-29-2012
^angel^ 10wks, 2 days, D&C 12wks, 3 days 11-2-09
^angel^ 5wks, 5 days 1-2-10
^angel^ 11wks, 1 day 5-22-10 with D&C
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January 4th, 2010, 10:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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Oh Jess, I'm so sorry
Thinking of you and Pat.
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January 4th, 2010, 11:01 AM
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Mommy to Orion
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Seattle
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Oh gah I am so sorry...
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