[kansasgal]

So....I just found out one my friends is pregnant. I should be happy right? This is the second friend to announce their pregnancy in one week. I cant believe this.....just a little over two weeks since I miscarried and now everyone is pregnant. Wth? I know I sound bitter and I am sorry for that. I just feel like its not fair. i am supposed to be pregant now too. One of the girls is due right when I would have been and it kills me. They are all so happy about it and they should be but I cant join in on the cheerfulness. I just cant. I feel guilty I feel this way. I know its not their fault I lost my baby but I am just so frusterated. Okay...that feels better to get it out. sometimes you just gatta vent to people who know what you mean.

[Kary♥RN]

Don't feel guilty.... It is ok to feel this way.... It is normal to feel this way... HUGS.. I know how frustrating this can be.. I m/c Nov 2008... with 2 days of m/c.. my husbands best friends wife called and said they were expecting... It killed me.. She even had the baby on my EDD.. That is how close we would have been. Seeing her killed me, hearing her talk about her pregnancy killed me.. I was bitter, and yes Jelous... Than I became pregnant again in Jan 2nd... two weeks after my SIL told everyone she was pregnant... again I m/c.... so she delieved my niece on Aug 25.... I should of had my little girl on Sept 18th...... IT SUCKS! IT HURTS! and you know I have to say it still does.... I can't say it has gotten easier for me... different.. but not easier... I don't know if it will change when I do get my sticky bean... but I'm not sure... HUGS to you.

[dansyl]

I know exactly how you feel. I have lots of friends who are pregnant right now and I keep thinking... I'm supposed to still be pregnant too!!!

[~InHisHands~]

[MeggysMommy]

Hugs I definitely can understand the pain and being jealous. I have quite a few people at my work whom I'm close with and they are all pregnant. 1 of them is due just a week and a half after I would have been.

[nurselochia]

There's nothing wrong with feeling that way. I have several coworkers due around the time I would have been, a neighbor with the exact same EDC, plus I'm starting to see people come in to L&D with March EDC's. (I work L&D) It sucks. It has eased a bit with time, but I am still jealous of them and it gets to me some times. Sending lots of HUGS! Be easy on yourself.

[~Lynda~]

like the others said, it's totally normal to feel the way you do! My friend told me she was pregnant right when I was finding out I was going to miscarry. it is very very difficult!!! hugs to you! it will happen for you hun!