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January 6th, 2010, 10:34 PM
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This was an follow up appt for the repeat d&c. The follow up for the first one was 2 weeks after the procedure and I knew it would be hard, but I had expected this one to be easier since it's been 2 mos since I lost the baby and I've been doing better. I was surprised at how hard that appt was and how down I still feel about it. It was made even harder because I would have been going for my big u/s sometime this week if my appt schedule had stayed on track. I should have been about half way through my pregnancy....This is just so hard! You think you've gotten past the bad part and then BAM, something comes along and sets you back again.

But the appt went well. He suggested I wait 2 more cycles before ttc but then said that there was no science to back that up, that it was just what the medical recommendation. He said if I get pregnant sooner that he will not be overly anxious. And also said at this point, I am at no greater risk of miscarrying than I was before. He can't say for sure, but feels like the the baby died because the baby implanted on my c/s scar. Of course he had no idea why it happened, so hopefully it won't happen again. I pray this doesn't happen again, this is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through.
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January 7th, 2010, 03:05 AM
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Aw, Im so sorry for you loss!
Youll be in my thoughts and prayers!

My gyno said the same thing to me. She said that professionally she suggest waiting 3 cycles, but honestly theres nothing wrong with me and if I got pregnant next cycle the baby should be just fine.. So Im trying already! I hope next cycle gives you the BFP you deserve!
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January 7th, 2010, 03:31 AM
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Super big hugs hun! I pray you get a BFP soon and its a sticky bean!
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