Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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January 10th, 2010, 04:09 PM
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Katie: mommy to Ty & Em
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Texas
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how many months did it take you to conceive this time around...
Just curious. I have looked around on the PAL board but i want to know how long it took you this time. I know some people it is pretty much right away and others it can take a bit longer... I am approaching month 6 now and hoping i don't have to wait much longer!
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January 10th, 2010, 05:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Kate - mine all varied. My second one was 4 months after my 1 and my fourth one was the very next cycle.
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January 10th, 2010, 07:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Exactly 6 months after my d&c in April, but then that one was a tubal...........Then I got my bfp on my 3rd. cycle since my loss in Sept. My very first one last year I really dont talk much about, it was a chemical, and I conceived the very next cycle with my 9.5wk loss. So six months to my 3rd. bfp, then three months to my 4th bfp.
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January 10th, 2010, 07:13 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Utah
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It was on my 4th month.
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January 10th, 2010, 07:35 PM
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Brooke
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Augusta, GA
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My loss was about 6 and a half months ago. We waited a little while before TTC again, and we conceived on our second cycle.
I hope you get your BFP soon!
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January 10th, 2010, 07:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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You have to remember every one is different... and it will happen.. yes it is frustrating...
Mine like Mlyster.. varied..1st was 2 months after my first, than 7 months... from my second loss... and now I am on cycle 4......
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January 10th, 2010, 08:59 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,055
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My first loss 6 Months then after my second loss I only had one cycle which I class as a miracle. Best of luck you will get your bfp very soon!!!
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January 10th, 2010, 10:02 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
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Yes, each on is different...
My loss going on 10 years ago before DD took several cycles before concieving again.
Over the summer I had our 1st loss then got pg shortly after before an AF came, which is so rare so they told me. (apparently not, bumped into many on JM??!!) Then 6 months, well 6 cycles over however many months since my cycles were all screwy.
Just when you lose hope it seems to happen, it has happened that way for so many on TTCAL... it's strange. Don't lose hope tho, please!!!
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January 11th, 2010, 07:18 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Boise, Idaho
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I hope you get your BFP soon.
I got pregnant again 3 months after losing Eli.
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January 11th, 2010, 08:34 AM
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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My issue isn't so much getting pregnant but staying pregnant. I have very low egg quality as I'm 37 and besides an elevated FSH my bt came back fine. After my first m/c I got pregnant again 3 months later only to have a chemical, and again 2 months after that and had another chemical. After the 3rd m/c it took another 3 months for this pregnancy to stick. So all together from the first m/c to this pregnancy it took me 9 months.
good luck and I hope you get a BFP soon!
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January 11th, 2010, 09:19 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: In the 'burbs of Boston, MA
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I m/c in September and got pregnant in December, we will see if it sticks. I think that is quicker than normal, my OB said expect at least 4 cycles of trying.
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January 11th, 2010, 12:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Phoenix, Arizona
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After my first loss i didn't try for several years. From our loss in march it took until July (4 months) from our loss in July it took until November (4 months) from our loss in November - it took a few days. Sending you super good eggs and fast swimmer dust!!! Gook luck Hun! I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get a BFP soon!
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January 11th, 2010, 05:56 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: northern Indiana
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After my D&C I had one period and then was pregnant again. Unfortunately that one was a chemical. I'm now trying one last month and then putting TTC on hold until summer. So it will either be one cycle or 5+ cycles by choice.
Good luck. It's such a frustrating wait...
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