[brandimomof2]

Ok so do you guys normally bd between 10-15,16 cd? Do you bd everynight during this time or everyother night? I do seem to o somewhere around cd 14. I have heard you should not bd everynight and then I have also heard you should bd everynight so you dont miss it. What do you guys think?

[~InHisHands~]

Every other night is more than adequate but if you're feeling frisky & want to do it every night, that's fine too, as long as DH's swimmers are not low. If they are low, you should BD every other night to give them a chance to build up in numbers again. The 2 best nights to BD & get pg is the day of your + OPK & the day after. Just my

[kitkat8323]

i bd every other night from the time af ends till it starts only cause i never know when ill o and i want to be sure to catch the eggie

[brandimomof2]

Ok.
So lets say we bd on day 10 and 11 then again on 13 and 15. What if I o on day 14? Should I bd on day 14 as well if that is normally the day I o or do you think its fine to skip day 14 since we will be bd on day 13 and 15? I just hate to miss it but at the same time I dont really know if DH's swimmers are low or not. Could be since he is 42.

[~InHisHands~]

Unless you KNOW his swimmers aren't good, I think you're fine. Besides, you got pg with his swimmers before AND my DH is 42 too & has GREAT swimmers! BTW, can I ask how old you are? I hope you don't think that's rude or whatever but I was really just curious if you are like us... I'm 32 so I'm 10 years younger than DH.

[EVY&EGYsMommy]

Both when we conceived my daughter and when we conceived this last time (which we lost) we BD'd the 3 days before I O'd, and the two days I had positive OPK's. I also do not get out of bed for about 20 minutes if we are trying.

GL!!!

[brandimomof2]

Originally Posted by ~InHisHands~

Unless you KNOW his swimmers aren't good, I think you're fine. Besides, you got pg with his swimmers before AND my DH is 42 too & has GREAT swimmers! BTW, can I ask how old you are? I hope you don't think that's rude or whatever but I was really just curious if you are like us... I'm 32 so I'm 10 years younger than DH.

LOL no I dont think you are being rude. I am 35. DH is actually 41. LOL I was giving him an extra year. LOL

[~InHisHands~]

Well I didn't add another year for my DH so he's actually a tad older than yours! Actually he'll be 43 in July & I'll be 33 in March.

[Kary♥RN]

We BD every night.... Dh had a SA done.. and his numbers are not great... But he got me pregnant 3 times in 11 months.. with those swimers... SO who know right? Dh is 35... Good Luck