[jjc99]

Hi! I have tried to check my CP several times in the past. I don't think I've ever found it. I've read the hints you've offered and whatnot...I just don't know/think I've felt it. Maybe it was always high when I checked. dunno. Maybe my fingers are too short. Nails too long. whatever.

So, last night, being on CD 8, DH and I dtd. Maybe it was cuz I wasn't in it 100% or what...but a couple times, it hurt - like he was hitting an internal wall. (I have felt it before, in the past, before TTC or even knowing the first thing about any of this stuff...) So, would it be fair to say he was possibly/probably hitting my cervix? I still haven't tried to find it myself - maybe when i get home tonight.

Thougts? have you experienced this too? This whole "CP" is really foreign to me.

Thanks!
Jen

[BigGrin]

I knwo what you're talking about, when my cervix is low and we DTD it hurts. I can usually tell where the CP by how it feels when we have sex. Have you tried squatting before checking your CP?

[jjc99]

I might have - Ithink I've done the foot on the toliet seat, and even lying down. I think the last times I checked was when I was between m/c and Oing...maybe between the m/c and AF. I don't remember now! I just know I checked several times, but I just wasn't sure if I was feeling it.

i know it's good to know, but CP might be one of those things that I don't worry too much about. I'm happy to know that I wasn't crazy though, thinking DH was hitting the C.

[BigGrin]

Lying down basically makes the cervix "mission impossible" to find imo. Something you may want to try is squatting while taking a shower, the cervix can feel like the tip of the nose (when firm and closed) or like a bit of ripe peach (when soft and open).