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January 25th, 2010, 08:41 PM
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So I had my appointment 8:30am this morning, like I said real quick earlier it was not good news.
It is definitely ectopic, and it has continued to grow to even have a yolk sac &/or a fetal pole in there. The sac that was in my uterus was abnormal. They drew blood and I had to wait until after their lunchtime for them. So the u/s tech took a ton of pics and told me her opinion and then called my dr to review the photos, she agreed that it was ectopic BUT wanted to see what the numbers said to make sure... well I headed out to the hospital a city over where they sent me and got the call my numbers had only gone up to 3888 from 2200 thursday... so I had to get admitted to get methotrexate. I got there at 12:30pm and didn't get the shot until 8:45/9pm.
They took 6 viles of blood kept scaring me with the talk of surgery, but after 3 more dr's reviewed everything possible to make absolutely sure of the diagnosis they decided on the shot. So the pharmacy took forever, but they sent it the wrong way wrong in only 1 syringe when it has to be in the 2 doses one for each buttocks.
Well that's all of it in a nutshell. I didn't get home until almost 11 because I had to go pick up my husband still from work.
I'm overrit right now, emotionless.
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When I was in the hospital yesterday I got a call from the ER doc from Thrusday... they cultured my urine for a few days and several bacteria showed up. One being some sort of UTI and what's funny is I told my DR's office that I was having pain in my bladder & kidneys, had trouble peeing and it would hurt to start to pee. But because I didn't have burning they didn't do anything for it.
Also some sort of vaginal bacteria and he said that they would have to treat it (my dr's office) since they're an Ob/gyn/peri and for me to call them today. He called me in script for the UTI tho and there's till some results coming up. I was shocked that an ER doc followed me thru and called me with such concern.
So I'm waiting for my dr's office to call back.
I'm defintely going to get things looked at in all my reproductive organs after my health is back up after loosing this angel. Perhaps this angel is making a difference to point something out that is going on down in there? Even my husband said it in not so many words friday, he's been so much better this time around probably because he's beeen there at the ER and appt yesterday am so he has some visual and dr's talking explaining it. (?)
Last edited by Celena; January 26th, 2010 at 09:26 AM.
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January 25th, 2010, 08:46 PM
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I'm so, so sorry Celena  This is so unfair and my heart is breaking for you. I wish there was something I could do or say to make everything better...
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January 25th, 2010, 08:47 PM
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I understand more now, and Im just at a loss for words. Thank god your dr. was so aggessive and saw you today instead of the standard "see you in a week for a repeat u/s". I can relate to numb, emotionless, its just not right for this to happen again Celena, it really isin't. Your in my heart and in my prayers tonight....
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January 25th, 2010, 08:54 PM
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Celena I am so sorry hunny. You are in my thoughts and prayers I wish this wasn't happening to you again. Big HUGS!
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January 25th, 2010, 08:56 PM
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There are no words. All I can offer is "I'm sorry" and "I'm here for you". This just isn't right or fair.
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January 25th, 2010, 08:59 PM
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We love you and we're praying for you!!
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January 25th, 2010, 09:05 PM
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I'm so sorry! This isn't fair.
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January 25th, 2010, 10:21 PM
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Missing my angel baby!
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am praying for you.
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January 25th, 2010, 10:33 PM
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I am so so very sorry.
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January 25th, 2010, 11:54 PM
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Celena I'm so sorry. SO so sorry. 
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January 26th, 2010, 01:43 AM
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Oh Celena - my heart is breaking for you and Andre.
I wish there was more to say.... xx
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January 26th, 2010, 02:11 AM
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I don't know what to say Celena. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
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January 26th, 2010, 02:21 AM
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I'm sorry Celena I can't believe this has happened to you big hugs xx
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January 26th, 2010, 02:28 AM
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I am so sorry
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January 26th, 2010, 03:22 AM
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Celena I am so sorry hun. You should not have to be going through this again. Super big hugs hun!
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January 26th, 2010, 04:22 AM
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Celena,
I am so so sorry this happened to you. My heart breaks to hear this news. I am glad they caught it when they did, but it does not make it any easier. Thinking of you!
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January 26th, 2010, 05:07 AM
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I am so sorry sweetie!! I know there is nothing we can really say to make it better, but I will be keeping you and DH in my T & P.
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January 26th, 2010, 05:41 AM
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Waiting patiently....
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So sorry Celena.
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January 26th, 2010, 06:12 AM
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Celena I am SO SORRY!!!!! I know that nothing I say can make it any better, but just know that if you want to talk, I'm always here for you! SUPER HUGS!!!!
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January 26th, 2010, 06:22 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Celena, I am so sorry for your los. I am sorry that you're going through it again . {HUGS}
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