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January 27th, 2010, 11:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I talked to the nurse today and my number was 434 on Tuesday. That was only 9 days after my DH and I DTD. Not sure if I was even O or not because I have been bleeding or spotting ever since my m/c in Dec except for 3 days! Have to go back tomorrow for more blood work in the morning. They are sending it to the lab at the hospital so I will have my results sometime tomorrow. Not sure how long that will take. If it doubles then possibly an u/s on Monday to check and see if it is a new pregnancy or just problems from m/c. I really don't think it is a new pregnancy b/c that number is extremely high! At work and I just want to go home and cry and curl into a little ball.
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January 27th, 2010, 11:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Im so sorry, I was hoping for better news. Did you have a d&c in Dec? They may need to repeat one if that is the case. If they do double appropriately, make sure to follow through with the u/s. Im praying for you.
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January 27th, 2010, 11:08 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Oh Lisa HUGS.... I am so sorry..... but you are right.. at 9 past BD... Even if you Ovualated the day before... those numbers are high.. HUGS.... since it can take about 5-7 to implant... Please KUP with your numbers.. HUGS
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January 27th, 2010, 11:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I did not have a D&C . I was 15w4d and they induced me and I had him that same day.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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January 27th, 2010, 12:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGS!!! i'm sorry. T&P for you that things get sorted out quickly.
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January 27th, 2010, 01:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Hugs! I am so sorry that your going through this.
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January 27th, 2010, 09:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Illinois
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Thank you everyone. Dr. appointment in the morning. I am going to bed! I have had a headache the last 3 days. Probably from being so stressed. I am exhausted from being on this stupid roller coaster. I took a 4 hour nap earlier. Have only been up for an hour and I can't even keep my eyes open. Will update tomorrow when I get my results back.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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January 28th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Illinois
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Well, number went down so I am not pregnant. My hcg was 300 something. I have to keep going in every week til it reaches negative now. Then once a month for possibly up to a year. I guess we will be NTTC anytime soon. I don't even know what to think now. I mean I didn't really think I was pg again so soon. It is just frustrating after being told you could TTC in a month and now it can be more than a year before we can. If that is the case I may need to seriously go on something for depression b/c I don't know if I can handle it all.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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January 28th, 2010, 01:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Im so sorry for all of this, trully Iam. On the other hand, Im furious with your dr. for telling you after a confirmed partial molar that you could try right away. I have never heard of such a thing. I would find a new dr. and get a second opinion on the ttc. With partial, you may only need to wait 6mo after hitting 0 and staying at 0 for 6months total. Im so sorry for the loss of your little boy too, yesterday I had not realized that he was already at 15wks, how absolutely devestating. Im praying for you to get through these next months, and if an antidepressent helps, then definitely talk to your dr. about getting one, I would certainly need one being in your shoes.
God bless
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