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January 28th, 2010, 09:21 AM
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I had a dream that i was in the delivery room and having a baby boy and when he was born he wasnt breathing or anything i was the only one in the room no one was with me but the nurse and dr my friends wernt there for me when i was talking about it and then in the dream we also had him creamated and had a service for him idk why now im scared of getting pregnant cause of the dream i know it might sound silly but i am anyone else have werid and scary dreams like this that make them nervous about ttc
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January 28th, 2010, 09:44 AM
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I am sorry you are having these bad dreams.... I hate bad dreams. I have read that sometimes dreams are reflections of things we feel deep inside...even things we really fear...I don't know if that is true but all my bad dreams usually have something to do with things I fear deep inside my heart. I hope your bad dreams will never be your reality...I wouldn't trust it as a truth but just a fear... it hurts when you lose a baby and I am sure thats where this is stemming from...
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January 28th, 2010, 10:44 AM
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I had about three dreams after I m/c and in my dreams I was trying to figure out how to tell the kids at school that I m/c. I work at an Elementary/Middle School as an aide. That was actually one of my biggest fears about going back to work.

I am sorry you had a bad dream like that. Hopefully it is just a bad dream and nothing else.
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January 28th, 2010, 11:40 AM
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HUGS.... I really can't help you on this one.. I rarely remember my dreams... and when I do.. it is only very short time spans in the dream... like a conversation, an argument, or seeing a very short scene in a movie... HUGS...

But I can understand your fear...
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January 28th, 2010, 03:31 PM
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I know it prob had something to do with the convos i had with people yesterday we were talking at work about miscarriage and one of the ladies told me to just get over it shes older in about her 60s so im sure thats just how she was brought up cause she even told me she went through one also and got over it and then one of the girls said she lost a twin at 20 w and her doctor was very uncaring so thats prob where the people ignoring me came in to play and the night before i had a big breakdown and cried for about 2 hours due to the fact i was stupid and went on to my old ddc and saw a ticker with all the ultrasound pics and their big belly's and i lost it so my emotions were and STILL are very high it prob doesnt help the witch showed up 2 days late again and me and my fiance were talking and i was saying how idk if id survive another m/c so im sure all the emotions rom that are prob what caused it it scared the crap out of me tho and im still scared about ttc
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