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January 28th, 2010, 05:17 PM
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I just finished the clomid yesterday, but I'm already feeling "out." I don't know why, but I really feel like I won't be getting a 2010 baby at all. Maybe some of it has to do with the fact that we've been on this journey for THREE YEARS now. Three years, four losses, now fertility drugs...Sometimes, I just want to give up, you know?

I don't know why I'm posting this...I don't really expect a response...just needed to vent.
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January 28th, 2010, 05:26 PM
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Im sorry Augie, the months we feel the most "out" are the ones that surprise us the most. Im praying for 2010 baby for you, and for all of our TTCAL ladies.
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January 28th, 2010, 05:26 PM
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I know how you feel as far as feeling out. Although you have gone through a lot more than me so I can't really imagine how you are feeling. I have a feeling I won't be getting a 2010 or 2011 baby right now. So sorry you are feeling like this!
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January 28th, 2010, 05:40 PM
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I'm so sorry Augie. I am praying for you! It's only been 6 months for me. It already feels like it's never gonna happen. I can't imagine how you're feeling. You're a lot stronger than me. I would have gone insane long ago.
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January 28th, 2010, 05:41 PM
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Oh hugs Augie! I'm still holding out hope for you. I do hope you get your 2010 baby!
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January 28th, 2010, 05:44 PM
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SkyBaby, who said I was sane? I'm not sure DH would agree. My mind went a very long time ago.
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January 28th, 2010, 05:47 PM
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If I had to guess I would say we have all prob. lost our minds in some way. I know I am not the same!
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January 28th, 2010, 06:18 PM
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Augie, I am sorry you are feeling this way. TTC sucks the life out of us and makes us zombies....
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