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January 31st, 2010, 02:20 PM
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I went to the ER last night I was having cramping and was just hoping for reassurance... They wanted to rule out etopic so they did an u/s. All they could see still was a yolk sac no fetal pole. They same thing they could see at my u/s Jan 19th. I was only measuring 5 weeks 5 days.. All my blood work came back good and my betas were 32,000 which the physician asst said were perfect for what I was measuring.. My last betas
1/6- 485
1/8- 914
1/11- 2449

The doctors didnt seem to reassuring and said that I do need to prepare myself for a m.c.. But they also told me that my cervix was completely closed and no signs of bleeding... Which I didnt have any bleeding with my last m.c at 13 weeks. It was a missed m/c.. I pretty much know this is the end of this but I still want to hold onto some kind of hope... My LMP was December 1st and I got my first positive HPT December 30th. So in my mind there is no way Im only measuring 5 weeks 5 days.. But than people keep telling me I could have ovulated late blah blah... I go in Tuesday for a repeat beta to see if the numbers are going up or down... I still kinda feel pregnant I mean my boobs still hurt slightly and have the nastiness taste in my mouth.. I just really dont understand and really am not going to be able to handle going through another m/c....
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January 31st, 2010, 02:31 PM
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First of all **HUGS** . . . you hear all kinds of stories so there is always hope. They couldn't see anything on my U/S and my hcg was much lower when they first tested so you sound much better than me. I would have to say, listen to your body. I knew what was happening even before the doctor confirmed it . . . I didn't trust myself, but I now know if it ever happens again. I really hope this isn't it for you . . .take care and you'll be in my T&P's.
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January 31st, 2010, 02:51 PM
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so sorry you are having to go thru the worry of this. i pray everything is ok with your little bean.
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January 31st, 2010, 03:01 PM
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Brandi HUGS... I am so sorry you had to come her looking for answers... It is so hard to think about what might be happening.... As for the pregnancy symptoms... Your body can send off false syptoms.. I knew I lost my heartbeat.. it was their one week, gone the next. And I was still having sever m/s... The measurement dosen't sound good. 5 wks 5 days... That would mean you would have Ovulated on Dec 23rd. That would have been on CD23 for you, if your cycle started on Dec 1st.. And that would have mad you 7 dpo on Dec 30th when you got your first HPT... But I have seen people "catch up"..... It is all still up in the air.. I pray that everything is ok... Please KUP! HUGS....
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January 31st, 2010, 03:44 PM
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The Misdiagnosed Miscarriage Site

this site has some amazing stories. not every story has a happy every after, but these can really give you some hope!
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January 31st, 2010, 04:18 PM
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Thanks mafiamom.. I actually found that site earlier and have read every story on there!! LOL
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January 31st, 2010, 04:21 PM
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I just wanted to say HUGS!
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January 31st, 2010, 05:55 PM
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February 1st, 2010, 06:36 AM
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any update? hope all is well....
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February 1st, 2010, 07:19 AM
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i'm sending my hugs too!!! the misdiagnosed miscarriage site was where I found my hope when I was going through my second m/c. I was going through the exact same thing you are!!! i'm here to offer hugs and tell you to keep the faith untill God tells you otherwise!!! praying for you and your baby!
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February 1st, 2010, 10:37 AM
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I hope all is well with you...You will be in my T&P... It is a horrible thing to have to go through what you are going through...Your story is similar to mine in the way that my baby's age was not lining up...It sucks...I hope everything turns out fine but if it doesn't know we are all here for you...
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