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February 1st, 2010, 11:12 AM
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Today is 10 DPO. I couldn't wait anymore, so I POAS. I got a definite BFN (. I do not know why but I really really hoped to get a BFP this month . I think if I were pregnant, it would have shown at least a faint second line (last time I got a faint BFP on 8 DPO). We BD 2 days before O, on O day, and the day after it. I guess No October baby for me .


P.S.: I just ordered 10 PG tests and i hope to use them next month.
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February 1st, 2010, 11:34 AM
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10 DPO... is still early!!!! Until AF shows... you are not out!!!!! Keep positivie! I know how hard it is... Seeing that BFN... gives a blow to your postive hope... But just remember...

Only 10% test postive at 10 dpo...
Average test + is on day 13!!! So hunny keep your chin up!
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February 1st, 2010, 12:00 PM
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what Kary said!!! Every egg has a different journey- someone said that to me once and it is so true! I hope AF stays away and you get your BFP in a couple days!
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February 1st, 2010, 01:41 PM
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Thank you! I hope that AF doesn't show
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February 1st, 2010, 02:23 PM
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until the ole witch shows up, you are still in this!! dont give up yet - hang in there and kup
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February 1st, 2010, 03:19 PM
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I think you should wait a few days and try again! Chin up sweetie, AF isn't here yet.
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February 1st, 2010, 05:22 PM
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It's still early! Hope you get a BFP in a few days!
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February 1st, 2010, 05:33 PM
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On FF they show statistically that most of the false BFN's were at 10 DPO. Hang in there and test in a couple of days.

For the study see:
When can I expect a positive HPT if I am pregnant?
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February 2nd, 2010, 01:04 PM
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Def try again in a few days!
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February 2nd, 2010, 02:37 PM
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Tusik, you are still very early and remember every time is DIFFERENT, so don't get so down and out yet. Implantation can occur at different time, different pregnancies. If it gets you that down then test later in your cycle when there's less of a chance to get a false negative which will play havoc on your emotion & mental states. But hang in there! You just don't know what's going to happen yet, it's early!
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February 3rd, 2010, 11:45 AM
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Thank you all for support!!!

I haven't tested again. AF is one day late. Yesterday I started coughing and today I got a fever 101 - 102.5. Waiting while my husband gets me non-aspirin Acetaminophen (since I'm not sure if i am preggo or not).

well gotta go back to bed to drink my OJ

and since I am so sick, i will not be sad if AF shows (otherwise I'd worry that baby would not be healthy).
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February 3rd, 2010, 11:56 AM
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I hope you feel better!
Have your DH pick up a test while he's out You're late, test again... I'm anxious for you!
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February 3rd, 2010, 01:00 PM
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i hope you feel better! I hope you picked up another test!!
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February 3rd, 2010, 03:40 PM
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Feel better. When do you plan on testing again?
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February 4th, 2010, 07:35 AM
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Thanks!!!!
I feel a little bit better. No retesting for me! AF showed this morning
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