[BrandiJeane]

After todays appt we are waiting a week to see if I start bleeding on my own. Its already been a week since I found out for sure the pregnancy wasnt viable.. If no bleeding by Wed. I go in for a d&c... I hate this waiting game!!

[Celena]

You and me both, it's been nearly 2 weeks since I found out this pregnancy is ectopic and it has grown since then... even after methotrexate shots last monday.

The waiting game is NOT fun

Does your doctor offer medication (like cytotec) to help things along? It might be an option and might kick it in the butt just enough to start the bleeding naturally.

I am very sorry to hear that you're in limbo right now, you and me both sister. You and me both... (not that that makes it easier for you) but I do pray that your body starts on it's own naturally and you don't need to have surgical means.

[alethia]

(((hugs))) I know how hard the waiting game is .... i had to wait a week as well with the pregnancy i lost in November. It was really hard.....I'm sending T&P's that things will start to go naturally or the D&C goes smoothly. Have you tried any natural things like black and blue cohosh? (It's a tea extract) It's a natural product that can be used either to induce a missed-miscarriage or labor. My older sister used it - on advise from her doctor and it helped move things along. Again, I am so sorry you are going through this. And I am truly sorry for your loss!

[mafiamom]

so sorry you are having to deal with this. i so totally feel your pain. i was on vacation in disney world with my family and another couple while i "waited". it is horrible.

i pray that it happens naturally, quickly and completely for you, hun. you are in my thoughts while you go thru this nightmare.

huge hugs. we are all here for you.

[Kary♥RN]

HUGS!... I am so sorry... With my last loss... I didn't want a d/c.. since I had one last Feb..... So it took my body 5wks to get to 0. The waiting is the worst... HUGS!

[BrandiJeane]

Thanks for the support ladies!! Ive looked for boards for reaccurent miscarriage and I dont seem to be finding many that have too much traffic. Either does the one here at JM! I feel like this is maybe where I belong until I figure this out..