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February 7th, 2010, 09:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Well Yesterday was a year since I had my d/e for my little girl.. I looked back to when did I Join TTCAL... And wow what a slap in the face.... Thier is only a few of us still here a year later... As I looked I saw introductions for a few of us that are still here.. but almost everyone is gone..... But over a year later... I still sit. I think I am a permant fixture here on this board.... Below is my intro.. From Jan 31st... (I thought I joined after my d/e.. but it was a few days after they told us we lost our Heartbear on the 29th of Jan) My d/e was the 6th of Feb.....
http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f1...questions.html (Introduction and questions...)
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February 7th, 2010, 09:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: British Columbia, Canada
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You and I came from the same DDC - like you I am feeling very frustrated. Exactly a week from today will be my 1 year anniversary of losing my first and its starting to sink in that we have been TTC for a while now with no little one to show for it. I really hope you get your BFP this month, a Halloween baby would be fantastic and the temp jump today looks very promising. Keep your head up and know that we are all here for you.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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February 7th, 2010, 09:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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 Hugs. Kary, I'm so sorry that you're still on this board over a year later. I hope that this month you'll get your very sticky BFP and finally get to move on to a ddc.
Since joining I've been keeping all the ladies here in my prayers, but I'll say a special one just for you today.
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Before you were born, I loved you...
Before you were here an hour, I would die for you...
This is the miracle of love.” -Maureen Mansfield
 (6), (3) and a  due Dec. 25, 2011 and one  up above and forever in our hearts.
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February 7th, 2010, 10:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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I remember when you joined Kary. I wish that none of us would be on this board for more than a few months. But here we are. I joined in April of 2008 and I'm still here! Not that I don't love you all, but I'm ready to move on (and to take the other veterans with me)!
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February 7th, 2010, 11:57 AM
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Proud JM hostess
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 I'm so sorry Kary
 GIGANTIC HUGS! I wish so much for you to get the heck outta this dodge and never look back, ever!
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February 7th, 2010, 12:35 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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Wow Kary, I think I came around the same time as you. Jeez.. I can't believe it's been that long already. I'm always rooting for you and wish for you to get your sticky BFP. Now I'm stuck in a zone just wondering why we are here for so long. Ugh.. It just sucks.
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February 7th, 2010, 12:49 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Oh, Kary, I really hope you get that Halloween baby!!!
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February 7th, 2010, 12:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yea Stephanie..When I was looking for my Intro... I saw your intro, Lynda's intro.... Kim was here... Sue.. and few other less active ladies..... I had a breakdown thinking why were we still here when so many others got thier Sticky beans....... I guess the bigger picture will show it self one day.. But for now we all have to stick together and be here for one another! HUGS!!
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February 7th, 2010, 01:12 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Location: Texas
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I just wanted to give you a big HUG Kary...and a hug for all of our "long timers" on this board. I'm sorry the TTC journey has been such a long and frustrating one for you...keep the faith, you will get your BFP soon! Meanwhile I'm going to keep lurking to check up on you until we can really celebrate that BFP (and man are we going celebrate it when it does happen!).
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February 7th, 2010, 01:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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God has a plan for you. He just wants that sticky bean to be perfect and even more special. It is just taking him a while to get that bean to you and when it happens we will all celebrate!!!
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February 7th, 2010, 03:53 PM
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Aww Kary, I feel for you & all of us still ttc on this board. A friend of mine said to me the other week 'you are put in situations that you can handle'. At first I was a bit peeved with her, but then I remember she lost her DD @ 26 weeks and I truly think she is right in a way. I am hoping to see 'the bigger plan' soon too, very soon. x
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February 7th, 2010, 04:22 PM
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I am so sorry Kary... I am right here with you, although I did not join TTCAL until April of last year it was a year for me in October.... We will get out of here. I am sorry I have been such a horrible friend and not giving you the support you deserve. ((Many hugs))....
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February 7th, 2010, 04:58 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
But for now we all have to stick together and be here for one another! HUGS!!
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February 8th, 2010, 03:15 AM
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Hugs Kary! It has been over a year since I lost my son. I don't know what I would do without you ladies.
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February 8th, 2010, 07:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Columbus, OH
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Kary - even though I'm a "newbie" I just want to give you a big hug. I want you to have your sticky bean! However, on the selfish side, you being on this board has helped SOOOO many women during their journeys, including myself. It's not fair that you and the other long-timers are here, and others have come and gone. If I could, I would wave a wand and give EVERYONE their sticky bean...
Now, to use your own words - go ravage that man of yours!
(I know you are in the 2ww...but you ravaging your man still sounded appropriate!)
-Jen-
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February 8th, 2010, 07:11 AM
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hugs kary. i can only imagine how frustrated and angry you must get to feeling. i pray that you get your BFP this month - a way of making this a happy time of year as well!
we are all rooting for you 100%~
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February 8th, 2010, 07:24 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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kary, your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm not dealing with this very well, as I know you know. But please believe me when I say, I don't wish this on you or anyone else. I want us all to get outta here! It seems so very unfair, so very wrong. but as you said, the big picture will be apparent some day. But for now, it makes me feel broken... in so many ways...
I look at people with babies, and I think to myself, don't take that for grantid, cause it's so darn special. Some them don't even realize how special it is. But I guess I do, and that is what is important to me. God works in mysterious ways. I trust him, I have faith in him, and I will continue down my path, wherever it should lead me, and in the end, I will be such a stronger person for it!
I pray that you and my other pals here are successful. I pray we all are successful and wouldn't it be great if we were successful together!!! i will continue to pray and dream!
Kari, HUGS to you!!! cause without you, i'd be a little less strong!
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