[ldovey83]

I think this cycle is a bust.... I mean what good does it do if my DH dosen't have time for bding... I am just so upset right now.. I am trying so hard not to cry.... I have been waiting so long to see those beauriful two lines again and actually carry to term, but looks like it is going to be another month of freaking waiting.. I am so mad I want to throw something..... My DH would rather play his ps3 then try to make a baby.. I keep asking him if he is serious about trying and he says he is and he sees how upset I am after each cycle AF shows but he just dosen't get it....Sorry I needed to vent...

[missy123]

I am sorry Lindsey.... I am glad that you have internet back so you can come vent to us... Maybe deep down he is feeling scared because he just got back to work and is nervous about supporting a larger family? Men sometimes have a hard time talking about what they are really feeling. Or maybe he is just "game addicted" like the 4 boys in my house... lol ((Hugs girly))

[mmllhh]

Men just don't get that it' CAN'T wait another day. It's a small window. Just jump him while he's on the PS2.

[ma2b2010]

men and those **** video games!!!! like mm said, grab his stupid game controller, toss it to the side, and pounce on him!!!!

[Celena]

Ugh, men and their toys!

Go grab him and take advantage of him

[ldovey83]

I tried but I had a small window before he had to go to work.. He went to get in the shower and said hey you can come in here and we can do it.. I said you just don't get it do you.... I flat out asked him if he wanted another child yet and I wanted a truthful answer he said yes he wants his little girl.. I said ok then you can't be joking around like this.. When we bd it has to be in the bed or somewhere I can lay for a few minutes and then it has to be when I tell you I am ready cuz you don't ovulate forever.. So none tonight but he said the morning but I doubt that will happen... I am not holding my breath.Thanks for all the hugs ladies and kind words.

[mafiamom]

that is soooo frustrating. my dh went on a string like that for a while. never did find out why, but i was ready to pull out my hair.


he is a big boy - time to put the toys away. next time you O - disconnect the game and hide it. no kidding. hold it for ransom. you bd with me every night during o time, you get it back.

one time when dh was watching so much flippen tv it was driving me nuts, i had the cable turned off!! he got the hint that time!

[~Lynda~]

at my house, the ps3 would mysteriously disappear!!!! HUGS

[SkyBaby]

That was my problem earlier. I know exactly how you feel hun. My husband couldn't ignore me dancing naked in front of him. Try that. Just randomly walk up to him and start stripping. Works on mine every time.

[ldovey83]

I'm mad at myself... This morning when he got home of course my son woke up, but DH wanted to do it, and I told him I felt bad cause he got home around 9 am and then he has to be back at work for a 12 hour shift at 5pm so he needs his sleep.. He said he thought about it lastnight at work and felt bad for what he did so he was willing but I just felt to bad making him loose sleep.. ESpecially when I have no money for energy drinks for him or coffee..... It's ok.. I have come to terms with it.. I don't think I am going to O yet.. My cervix is still open but now I am bone dry.. I don't know what is up with my body, but it is very frustrating. Hopefully it will give me a couple more days until DH's work schedule eases up then it can ovulate and give me a chance..