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February 21st, 2010, 09:35 PM
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So... i had the pregnancy dream the night after BD so im thinking that is when i actually concieved 2/2. Well on 2/13 i had two BFP's. One digital and one FRER. The same night i started bleeding. No cramping...Lighter than normal! Next day i got another BFP. Then 2/15 i got a BFN. 2/16 I did one and got a BFP...Then another at the doc and had a BFN. 2/16 i also had a beta. 2/17 i was told my hcg level was 20.77. 2/18, 2/19, and today 2/20 i still have gotten BFP's. I dont know if its my eyes messing with me but the test seem to be getting lighter. They are all FRER. Has anyone gone through this. Im so scared. They did another beta friday. The whole weekend i have gotten BFP's! I wont find out results until monday. I am going insane Please let me know what you all have been through and if i should still have hope...
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February 21st, 2010, 09:55 PM
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you would have been @ 13-14dpo when you had your first beta right? That could be normal, but if you get intermitant -'s & +'s I would be very concerned too. HOWEVER, everything could be just fine too... you were 9dpo when you got your 1st + and that is VERY early to be getting a +. I hate to say it honey, but you're going to have to hang in there wait for the results and hopefully they'll draw another beta to see that # too.

Good luck! Everything might just be FINE I'm sorry for the anxieties and fears right now. Hang in there and KUP

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February 21st, 2010, 10:00 PM
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thanks! im dying for tomorrow. think i might just go to bed to make time fly. gotta be up at 430! soo lame...doesnt help to be sleep deprived when your already stressing out I will update after i find out as soon as i get my fingers on my keyboard at work Til then, cross your fingers for me!!
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February 21st, 2010, 10:11 PM
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It is so hard... Please KUP... When you get your numbers back tomorrow... Hope the night goes by fast.... but you get a good three hours sleep {{{HUGS}}}
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February 22nd, 2010, 09:05 AM
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February 22nd, 2010, 09:09 AM
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Hang in there hun and try not to test anymore.. That just stresses you out even more cause different things effect the outcome.. Like diluted urine and different dyes in the test so try not to stress out to much., HUGS!!!
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February 22nd, 2010, 09:30 AM
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Hang in there. I know you're freaking out. (I think any of us would be!!) just try to breathe. Afterall, if you are PG, the stress isn't going to help!
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February 22nd, 2010, 10:57 AM
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definitely not good news=/ levels dropped to 9.44 on friday...i dont even know how im sitting here composing myself at work. but i gotta try to stay strong in front of all these men! im the only woman here...sooo upset right now!
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February 22nd, 2010, 11:02 AM
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I am so sorry.... HUGS... Please know we are here for you... {{HUGS}}
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February 22nd, 2010, 11:11 AM
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February 22nd, 2010, 12:22 PM
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Oh no I'm so sorry hun!

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I am so sorry... We are here for you if you need anything...
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February 22nd, 2010, 06:03 PM
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February 23rd, 2010, 10:06 AM
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So sorry to hear that! You will be in my T&P
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so very sorry. you are in my thoughts. know that we are all here for you~
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