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February 22nd, 2010, 07:08 PM
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,616
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Hi everyone.
After just hanging around for a little while, making a few comments, watching and healing, Ive finally decided to introduce myself. I originally found JustMommies by chance, just fooling around with due date calendars etc. I was so excited to find so many different women who were experiencing just what I was, in the same time frame. It was really a lot of fun. And then 11 days ago I started bleeding (I was 7 weeks and 2 days) and there began the immediate and complete heartbreak that only another mom who has suffered the loss can understand. This is my 2nd loss. The first was during my 10 year marriage, the month before I conceived my second son. I have 4 great kids, 18 yr old son, 12 yr old son and 11 yr old twin girls. Since then I divorced their dad and have been with my wonderful partner for 7 years. We became pregnant NTNP, and we were both so happy about it, so now we are just waiting for 1 regular period then we are going for it! Ive found this board is full of such warm hearted generous women, that I feel comfortable here already, so thank you all for that and I can only hope to be able to share my thoughts, opinions, tears and laughter with you all.
Good luck to you all and a safe journey to us all!
Tobi
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February 22nd, 2010, 08:08 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 2,236
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Hi Tobi! Welcome to the board! I am so sorry for your loss! I lost my baby at 7w3d. I was devastated!  . I hope you get your sticky BFP soon! Good luck to you in TTCAL!
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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February 22nd, 2010, 08:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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Tobi.. I am so sorry for your losses.... Going through this is so hard... We all totally understand what you are going through.. Welcome to the Best board on JM! I hope your stay here is short.. and you BFP comes quickly! HUGS
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February 22nd, 2010, 08:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
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I'm so sorry for your losses. They are so hard to get through. I hope that life only sends good baby news your way from now on!
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February 22nd, 2010, 08:48 PM
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Ayla 11/8/10
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Southern California
Posts: 2,718
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Hi Toby! I'm so sorry for your loss. A heartfelt welcome and hope your stay is short!
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Jo (34), Christian(14), Xander(6), Xya(5), & Sophia(3), & Ayla 11/8/10! ~
~ "Remember, you're not managing an inconvenience. You're raising a human being." -Kittie Franz~
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February 22nd, 2010, 09:16 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
Posts: 5,209
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Tobi welcome! You sound quiet wonderful and warm hearted yourself  glad you have come to join us and in this journey together.
 I'm really very sorry to hear about your loss right now, hope that we can help lift you up when you're down however you need us to when you need! I love the ladies here because they're all such wonderful souls... super compassionate & kind beyond words.
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February 23rd, 2010, 08:57 AM
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: PA
Posts: 72,640
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Sorry, hugs and welcome 
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February 23rd, 2010, 09:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Bethlehem, PA
Posts: 5,018
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i am so sorry you had to come find us, as i totally know how devastating it is to lose a precious bean, but i am glad you are here! the women here are wonderful and it is so comforting to have people understand all the craziness you are feeling and know that is is normal!
i hope your stay here is short and sweet! welcome
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February 23rd, 2010, 09:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Utah
Posts: 2,071
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Hi and welcome. It's wonderful to have a place like this to talk and share stories with others. Hope your stay is a short one!
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Our rainbow baby Brynlee Sue was born August 17th after four heartbreaking loses! Life is an amazing journey. Hang on, keep your faith and try to always move forward!
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February 23rd, 2010, 08:02 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 805
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i'm so sorry for your loss.. ***BIG HUG***
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February 24th, 2010, 07:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Illinois
Posts: 2,233
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I am sorry for your losses. It is a hard thing to go through. I wish you best of luck with your ttcal journey and hope you get a sticky BFP soon!
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February 24th, 2010, 09:11 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Bristow Virginia
Posts: 1,560
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I am sorry for your losses. The ladies on this board are as warm and kind hearted and more than you can ever imaging. I wish you the best on your TTC journey and hope that you stay here is short.
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