[DukesMommy12]

My hubby is a gret man... But hes like a once a weeker (if im lucky)

Between feb 25th and march 4th Id like to have sex more than once.. Preferably everyday

but id like to make it romantic not just baby dancing and then nothing

whats a good way to "start the fire?"

[ohnicole]

I need some advice on this one, too. I have been known to set the mood by saying, "Do you want to do it before or after your shower?" For some reason, DH doesn't respond to that very well

[Isabelle]

I don't have much advice. I'm trying not to make TTC stressful for Doug (husband). We're just having good, regular sex and not focusing on making a baby (but that's always in the back of my mind ).

[SkyBaby]

I'm lucky if I get twice a week. My husband is a hard-core gamer, but sometimes even he gets so horny he can't ignore it anymore. On the days he's not horny, sometimes it works to strip in front of him when he's not expecting it. That usually gets some kind of response out of him. Sometimes that still doesn't work. Like yesterday. We did it 2 days in a row and I stripped for him yesterday, and he said "Sorry babe, I'm all burned out."

It's frustrating I know. I hate it when my work schedule doesn't allow us to even be together every day. I do mostly closing shifts at work so I'm leaving right before he gets home. >.< I hate my job sometimes.

[ak_mommie_of_4]

IDK sometimes I try to be playful about it and then it's fun and doesn't seem like such a chore, but lately I am in need of new ideas too because I hope tonight is the last night then we can stop until the weekend. DH works 11 hour days and I am up by 7am and by 9pm I am tired too!

[lex1078]

Jeez, I used to have all these good ideas, but now I can't think of any. Hmmm.... How about a little role playing? You could make him dessert in the nude? That could lead to interesting things. If you know what time he gets home, get naked a few minutes before he gets home and tell him there's no clothes allowed and he should get naked. While he's doing that you should act like nothing weird is going on and dust, clean, vacuum. Do your normal things and try to tease him once in a while, you could dust his um... you know what I mean. How about watching a dirty movie together? I know some women aren't into that, hope I didn't offend anyone. Or be reading a dirty magazine when he comes in the room. Oh man, if only I followed my own advice!!

[DukesMommy12]

Originally Posted by lex1078

Jeez, I used to have all these good ideas, but now I can't think of any. Hmmm.... How about a little role playing? You could make him dessert in the nude? That could lead to interesting things. If you know what time he gets home, get naked a few minutes before he gets home and tell him there's no clothes allowed and he should get naked. While he's doing that you should act like nothing weird is going on and dust, clean, vacuum. Do your normal things and try to tease him once in a while, you could dust his um... you know what I mean. How about watching a dirty movie together? I know some women aren't into that, hope I didn't offend anyone. Or be reading a dirty magazine when he comes in the room. Oh man, if only I followed my own advice!!

Haha!! I love all your ideas!!

But honestly, Im normally like that. I HATE wearing clothes. So when were home ill close all the blinds and just do whatever completely naked. Watch tv, clean, cook... So he would be like, "yeah what else is new." lol

[SkyBaby]

Originally Posted by lex1078

Jeez, I used to have all these good ideas, but now I can't think of any. Hmmm.... How about a little role playing? You could make him dessert in the nude? That could lead to interesting things. If you know what time he gets home, get naked a few minutes before he gets home and tell him there's no clothes allowed and he should get naked. While he's doing that you should act like nothing weird is going on and dust, clean, vacuum. Do your normal things and try to tease him once in a while, you could dust his um... you know what I mean. How about watching a dirty movie together? I know some women aren't into that, hope I didn't offend anyone. Or be reading a dirty magazine when he comes in the room. Oh man, if only I followed my own advice!!

LOL love it!

[BigGrin]

There has been some evidence that Maca root can enhance libido. Basically it is supposed to work by creating a balance in the reproductive glands. I decided to give it a try and also have my husband taking it too. He says that he has noticed a difference and we've been BD'ing more often lately. It could be psychological but hey, I'll take whatever I can get.

[lex1078]

Originally Posted by snicole90

Haha!! I love all your ideas!!

But honestly, Im normally like that. I HATE wearing clothes. So when were home ill close all the blinds and just do whatever completely naked. Watch tv, clean, cook... So he would be like, "yeah what else is new." lol

So put your clothes on!!! That should confuse him!! LOL!!!!! I wish I could do that...

[DukesMommy12]

Originally Posted by lex1078

So put your clothes on!!! That should confuse him!! LOL!!!!! I wish I could do that...

Yep Im gonna have to try that!

[DukesMommy12]

Well I found out what gets my hubby going.... When I CLEAN!! OMG! He feels appreciated when I clean the house, so when he feels appreciated... I get some... YAY! (Thats way easier than what I had planned!! lol)