[Kary♥RN]

We all know how many times you BD around Ovulation...

What do you do to keep your man in the mood, how do you keep it interesting or romantic?

When do you pull out the stops?

[lex1078]

I don't do much. DH is easily turned on. I just have to give him a look and he's ready. I do though, wish he would do a little more to try and turn me on.

[zkat]

1) I do not mention Ovulation. end.of.story. It is an instant mood killer, even if he knows it's the week

2) We don't go every day - DH revolts after about 3 -4 days, so I plot my days carefully leading up to O. Luckily - I am fairly regular and usually O on day 10-12 and my signs are all very strong leading up to, so I can be selective

3) We keep it interesting. At least 1 or 2 times we will have HNS (hot, nasty) with no intention of baby making. I figure it works in thousands of hotel rooms across the country, I can go for at least one session during my fertile days. Actually pretty sure it was when we concieved last July - broke ALL the rules.

4) I am very accomodating to DH on my non-fertile days - this is a two way street

5) I do not have a bunch of "rules" for DH. I figure if I nag him on the caffeine or artificial sweetners or alcohol, he is going to start resenting the whole process and then I will never get a baby. He is a healthy male, so until we get dr. orders otherwise, I will let him be happy.

So far it has worked for us, but we haven't been at it as long as some of you have been. So if I am still here in a year or so, I maybe be singing a different song.

Kat.

[Natalie_Snow]

I cannot do much, I bought some sexy underwear/lingerie... he said that he doesn't need to see clothes...he simply prefers naked body . Funny strip dancing helps sometimes . He is usually fine with baby making but is not extremely excited about doing it every day. BDing every day during the O week (since my O can be any day between CD 15 and CD 22) is hard for both of us. I am afraid that if it is just every other day, I won't get my BFP.... I made a mistake of mentioning an important O day once and it was a complete turn off for him.

[DukesMommy12]

I have to pull out all the stops just to get some....

My hubby is harder to turn on then a catholic nun...

[BigGrin]

Catholic nun!

I stopped talking about O'ing...ever. Talk about your joykill. I found that he likes me to be a bit covered...like a small silky, slip. He said it's nice to be teased a bit. Having my hair down (i usually keep it in a braid) and even sometimes putting on some light makeup makes him hot.