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February 25th, 2010, 11:22 PM
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Do you ever feel like this is like trying to wait for water to boil? Like my other pregnancies it was like a surprise, I didn't go get HPT or OPK it just happened. I didn't even have to try. *SIGH* I just feel like since I am prepared and I want it to happen that it isn't. I feel like I am NEVER going to get a BFP and if I do it will be another m/c. Sorry to be such a downer, I just feel depressed about it. I wish this would just go right. I hate waiting, I hate getting my hopes up and then being let down. It really is harder than I thought it would be. I know once I get a BFP and it sticks it will be all worth while, but never imagined that it would be such an emotional rollercoaster.

Thanks for listening to my vent...
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February 25th, 2010, 11:24 PM
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Totally hear ya!!! The waiting takes forever... then when you lose it to m/c, it's like OMG, I have to do this ALL OVER AGAIN? Sigh. The 1WW drives me literally bonkers .. and that's where I am now... hugs girl - it WILL be worth it!!
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February 26th, 2010, 10:18 AM
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February 26th, 2010, 10:27 AM
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Yeah it really sucks. After my m/c, everyone was saying 'You can get pregnant again, just keep trying' or 'Well now you know you can get pg with charting. Start temping again.' And all I could think was 'But I don't WANT to.' (And then make a pouty face, stomp my feet, and put my hands on my hips) There's no getting around how tough it is. All I can tell myself is that it will be worth it in the end.

I hope you get past your emotional slump quickly! And if not, at least you know where to come to vent
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February 26th, 2010, 02:40 PM
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I wish all the time that I could have just accidentally got pregnant before now. The thing I find interesting is that when you're trying not to get pregnant you dont realize how hard it actually is to get pregnant.
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February 26th, 2010, 03:04 PM
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Christina HUGS.... It will happen... And when it does you will have worries of m/c again... but that is when you turn to PAL.. people who know your fears & concerns. Just like you have us to get you to that point. Just keep hope and it will happen! HUGS!
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