actually the cramps are what told me i was preggo

. i never get cramps before af starts so when i got them around 7 dpo.... i was very surprised...
when i had my m/c i had bleeding well before the cramps so i dont really relate the cramps to m/c but rather to being pregnant!
this may be it for you!!! i hope it is. i understand your fear tho. every little thing is going to give me heart failure if i end up pregnant again.
gl and kup

try not to worry - this could very well be a GREAT sign