[DukesMommy12]

So Im fertile, hubs and I are bding...

We did it this morning...

I O'ed but he DIDNT!

I swear hes harder to please than a blue whale!

When we werent trying this was fantastic!

But seriously, now...... I feel like I have to be a porn star just to get some sperm inside me.

Hes really trying hard, but I mean how much can he do? He cant O by sheer will..

Ideas, how do I get him to O?!?

[SkyBaby]

Ohh that's my problem too. DH goes 99% of the time. The problem with me is getting him to want it more than twice a week. We used to do it a whole lot. We both gained weight, and I think that's a culprit. Once he gained weight, his sexual energy plummeted. Not even dancing naked in front of him does much unless he's already been in the mood. We've also both been stressed by work and ttc and other stuff.

My husband's grandmother got us this awesome little romance kit with rose scented fake flower petals and rose scented bubble bath and all that. That did the trick.. he likes the romantic stuff as much as I do. If I keep using it, he's going to become desensitized and not want it. Oi.. this is so annoying. Good luck!!

[mlyster]

I think guys have a harder time dealing with the pressure. Like you said he can't O by sheer will and when he starts thinking about "having" to O it makes it a mental thing.

Do you tell him when you are fertile? I never told DH. I didn't want him to be under the kind of timeline or pressures of TTC when I needed him most (hehehe).

[DukesMommy12]

No i never tell him, he just knowss we want a baby and if we have sex we eventually get one.

i do all the "vagina" stuff. Because Id still be horney if he was covered with poop in a clown outfit

[zkat]

Stephanie - your DH is a gamer, right? My used to be, so IFYP!! One night I was walking around him in a black strapless push up bra, black lace thong and sitting on top of him and he didn't even blink from the *^$$@!#E computer screen.

Luckily - he got bored and found a new obssession that we share together - running.

Since he is so computer oriented - could you engage him in a cyber chat? That might be fun and different and maybe, just maybe get him off the computer. I have thought about doing this w/DH on our FB accounts, just to keep life interesting.

[EJsMommy]

I can understand your frustration as this has happened to me in the past.
Perhaps a little more foreplay and cuddle time and perhaps a massage with soft romantic music.
I hope this helps some but outside of this I do not know. I have no trouble getting my DH to want. He is more than willing and we go every other day. I gained some weight that I have not gotten rid of.

[mom2pne]

Maybe its cuz he's trying to hard and stressed over ttc. Maybe have a romantic night out and relax.

[Kary♥RN]

What has worked in the past??? Maybe you have to go back to what used to work.... and get him back to being in the mood. I have never had that problem.. I am usually the one that has to be put in the mood...