[JesSsica]

Yesterday my dh talked to his sister. She said, "Is Jess pregnant?" He said, "No, I told you that she lost the baby again". She said, "I know. I had a dream that she was pregnant and I thought maybe she was again and you weren't telling anyone yet."

Weird.

I'm not though. I took another cheapie test today, 11DPO, and it was negative as negative could be. No symptoms and no gut feeling in my book equals one big ol' negative.

My dh tells me this with a smirk like he's secretly wanting me to be pregnant. If we're on a break and using condoms I'm not going to get pregnant, silly boy! I keep telling him that I just wish I could look into the future and know. I have maternity clothes from my initial recent pregnancy, bedding that I had bought, and tons of books and toys for babies from my kids that I would love to know if I will ever need. I'm such a "use it or get rid of it" kind of person that it's driving me crazy to have it all in the house.

What will be will be. Maybe I can talk him into just one more month of trying... doubt it! That would mean a Christmas month baby and I don't know if I really truly want one more thing going on in December... *sigh*

[Justjessie]

I am on the Jessica Needs To Get Knocked Up Train.

Just DO IT! Heck, September is the ONE MONTH a teacher should NEVER HAVE A BABY! But I said hey what the heck. Now I'm going to do it. It'll all work out!

You want one, DH wants one, and you are Fertile Woman. If you start your period, go get some a week or so later =)

Your sister in law had that dream and now you have to make it come true! Screw the calendar!!!

[Kary♥RN]

Dreams do come true...... Sometimes people see things.... maybe this is that time... I say try to talk him to one more month!!! HUGS

[JesSsica]

My dh and I had the day off today together since he just got home late last night from being gone a week. We BD'ed today with no condom... of course because I'm way past O time... and afterwards he said, "Hey, we only have three condoms left in the house". I said, "Once they're gone, we're finished with those things". LOL He said, "Why do you say that, I thought we were on a plan?" I said, "We're not getting any younger-- it's now or never mister... the choice is yours!" and he grinned.

End of conversation. We'll see how this next month goes. I really, really don't want a December baby though because it's so hard as it is with my dd being a November baby and it sucks having to get ideas for her birthday and then turn around come up with ideas for Christmas. Lame reason I know but doing that for two people seems stressful.

I'm over thinking this, aren't I?!

[Kary♥RN]

No it's not... My son is Nov 13th... and your right.. it is so hard.. and then they get birthday money and want to buy something they asked for Christmas... and you already bought.. and have to fight with them to buy something else... UGGGg I so understand!!!!

[JesSsica]

Good, I'm glad you understand because now I know I'm not overthinking this! LOL My Madison's birthday is Nov. 24 and I'm lucky to get one or two ideas total for birthday and Christmas. Not to mention if I Christmas shop early someone else will have bought something I bought her for Christmas for her birthday.

I don't know what the answer is... like I am guaranteed a Dec. baby or something if we BD next month. LOL I've lost my mind now... LOL