[JesSsica]

... BFN again at 13DPO. I knew it in my gut and I was right. *sigh*

I used to have 28 day cycles and today is day 28 but unfortunately my last cycles have been closer to 34 days. This means AF is right around the corner and I have to wait an extra week now to get her here. Bah!

I guess that's a good thing though when not TTC because you have less periods per year. There's a bright spot to every cloud I suppose...

[mafiamom]

sorry jess is there anyway you could still be in the game? now that your cycle is 34 days, isnt it possible that you O'ed early?

until she shows, dont lose hope!

[Natalie_Snow]

Jessica, I'm sorry. maybe you're not 13DPO? cycles get messed up after m/c, so it's possible that O day has moved too.
GL!

[JesSsica]

Despite having longer cycles I *think* I O'ed at CD15 this month. The only time we DTD around that time with no condom was the night before at CD14. *If* I happened to O after that I'm totally out of the game because not only was my dh using protection then, but he was out of town then for 8days which would have totally made me miss it anyway.

I'm pretty confident I O'ed 13 days ago because I had EWCM throughout the day. I guess you never know but I have zero symptoms. I'm not premenstrual yet but not even building hope from that because I usually start getting a little moody and irritable (my poor family-- LOL) 2-3 days before I start.

If I got pregnant this month and I'm still not getting BFP's it would be a miracle for sure because I've always gotten nice and early BFP's. I guess I just know in my heart that I'm not so I'm not even sure why I wasted the tests... maybe because they were there and this is the only time in the month I can pee on them and not be wasting them!

[Natalie_Snow]

we test because POAS is soo exciting .

well, in that case, I hope your next cycle will bring you BFP!!

[DukesMommy12]

Sorry about your bfn!

On to next cycle

[dreamer10]

I am sorry. For moms who are ttc that last few days before af arrives are the hardest...and if it does arrive its heartbreaking. I will always hope and pray for a miracle for everyone on this board..but if it doesnt happen for you maybe we can shoot for the dec ddc together...???

[JesSsica]

I would have to do a lot of convincing as far as my dh goes. I pretty much convinced him of a million reasons why we don't want me to have a baby in December, January, or February because of zillions of things going on. Part of me is ok with waiting, part of me just wants to know if it will ever happen...

[Jmcrican137]

Jessica, my dh says the same thing too. i tell him something will ALWAY be going on..then he tells me I'm right. lol If not this month, don't worry, you're bfp will be here soon!

[~Lynda~]

men are from a different mold!! forsure!!! hugs to you - i know how bad it sucks to get a bfn!!! boy do i know!!!! but perhaps you could have O'd a couple of days later. You would still be in it cause sperm last for several days, but you might not be registering a bfp YET!!! keep the faith till AF shows!! hope she doesn't!!!

[Kary♥RN]

HUGS.. I am so sorry for your BFN.. I hope it turns into a surprise BFP!!!

[JesSsica]

I'm 14DPO, I'm finished with the cheapie tests as of two days ago so now I sit here waiting to start. No AF symptoms, no pregnancy symptoms and ONE single FRER sitting in my closet that I refuse to use until at least next Tuesday because that would be CD34 (19DPO) and that's the longest one of my cycles has been since my losses if I'm remembering correctly.

A surprise BFP would be the biggest surprise in my life since I know in my heart it's not my month. Wouldn't that be a kicker?!

Here's a question, do you ever get really thick, creamy cervical mucus for a couple of days before you start your period? I've had a day of what I thought was EWCM right before starting last month but this month it's thick and white and creamy for two days now. How's that for TMI? LOL

[Justjessie]

I get CM at any time, throughout any month, pregnant, not pregnant...I'm sorry I can't be of any help!!!

This pregnancy was weird, my testing early. With the other three (two live births and a loss) the lines at 14 DPO to 16 DPO were LIGHT LIGHT LIGHT!!!

I'm rooting for ya =)

[Celena]

Jess I'm sorry about your bfn... you know I've thought of certain months I don't want to have, but at this point I DO NOT CARE, I just want a healthy baby and a healthy pregnancy. The months don't matter anymore. Sometimes you have to just go for it and put those fears and concerns aside if they're not going to endanger you, but it is ultimately your decision. We'll back you up no matter what!

If it happens it happens, I hope you get that BFP soon... hang in there honey and we're here for you!!!