[EJsMommy]

My DH has since long said that he really (strongly) dislike the company he works for. He doesn't trust the upper management and this has been going on for years.
Yesterday I came home and he was already home and it blah mood. He has said this before that he wants to turn in his notice of resignation. Yesterday he said that today he would turn it in. He has interviews lined up (like minimum 3 so far) but nothing definite yet.
I am sure he will find a job but that caught me off guard so I am really hoping that he can find a real good job at a company that he can thrive in and also can trust the upper management.
How would you handle that? Would you let your DH just up and leave and go temp while looking for a permanent job?
I just need your on this.
Thanks

[ldovey83]

I've been in your shoes a couple of times.. My DH has quit one job for another, and then the day after Thanksgiving he got laid off, and was out of work till the end of January.. I am a stay at home mom so we had no money for anything.. It was rough, but we got through it.. I just stood by his side and supported him... That is all it takes is for them to know we are by them 100 percent.. Hang in there it will get better.

[Kary♥RN]

OH HUGS..... Let me tell you.... it is hard.. but support him.... My husband was being jerked around... his hours, his postion.... and he was told to either take a shift he did not want.. (after they had changed his sift twice before.. and was not happy with either one... but kept sucking it up).... and they were going to change his position also.. (add on more stress)... Or take a vollentary Lay off... I told him.. you hate it thier.. you have for years... just take the lay off and well be fine.. He was laid off for 10 months..... He just got a new job... It's not the best.. but he is still looking for something else.... BUt I am sure everything will work out.... It always does.... HUGS!!

[EJsMommy]

Thank you ladies. It does work out and I know that he hates going there every day. When the man comes home more angry than happy then you know something is completely off base there. It is a lot of non communication in that company so lots of long hours that interfered with his love of basketball being a coach at a high school in the area here. It also interfered with us being able to be relaxed while TTC. The loss of our child I think have something to do with this but he is not happy case closed. I also feel it is for the better but I hope he can find a job where it does not only like it and like the people that he works with that he also gets a raise. We shall see what happened today for him when I see him tonight.

[BeccaM]

Oh Im sorry to hear you guys have to deal with this. DH was laid off last year but went to a temp place and was placed quickly. Luckily they hired him on FT with all the benefits. It all worked out especailly since he really hated the job he was laid off from. Being close to the DC area Im sure he will find something quick. Best of luck to him! and you for your support!

[EJsMommy]

Thank you again. His last day at his current job is on the 19th of this month. He'll find something for sure. He has an interview today. Please keep us in your T&P please.

[Natalie_Snow]

He had a very good job and decided to make a career change.... Then my DH was out of job for 2 years at one time... 1.5 out of those 2 were during his final years of college, so that was ok with me..I was the only one working. I LOVED being with him almost all the time but hated living on our savings...
But then he couldn't find a good job as a new college grad....he spent almost 6 months looking for something and ended up with a crappy minimum wage job...

But your husband has lots of experience, so I am sure he will have no problem finding a job! Location matter too! You seem to be in a nice location! GL to your husband!!!

[EJsMommy]

Thank you NaTusik for your words. It is not always easy but not impossible to be to supportive wife when you are little worried. I also beleive that location matter so he should be able to find something soon. He has no full college degree but he has lots of work experience instead which I understand counts alot. I am also helping him finding leads and he is in contact with head hunters that search for him as well.

[ohnicole]

I'm sure it is difficult to be worried about what will happen, when you have no idea what the future holds. It is really great that you are able to support your DH in spite of that worry!

[EJsMommy]

Thank you Nicole. Knowing that the ladies here are as supporting as they are I feel very secure.