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March 5th, 2010, 02:26 PM
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.... CD1 for me today too.
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March 5th, 2010, 02:33 PM
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OH BOOOOO... Jessica.. I'm sorry she showed.. I hope this is the last time you see her for 9 months!!!
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March 5th, 2010, 03:05 PM
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Sorry Jessica. That just isn't cool....ugh....
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March 5th, 2010, 03:24 PM
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I'm sorry Jessica.
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March 5th, 2010, 03:45 PM
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I'm sorry hun.. Wishing you tons of luck this cycle..
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March 5th, 2010, 03:55 PM
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I'm sorry
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March 5th, 2010, 04:05 PM
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So sorry!
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March 5th, 2010, 06:52 PM
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Jessica I so sorry she showed. Sending you baby dust for this cycle. Hugs
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March 6th, 2010, 12:17 PM
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Thanks. I just don't think my dh is on board anymore. We only did it without protection once this last cycle (thankfully the day before I think I O'ed) so it would've been dumb luck if I would've ended up pregnant anyway. I know it only takes one sperm though...

We were talking this morning and he was upset that I was bleeding so heavily (horny old man! LOL) and I said, "Well if you would've gotten me pregnant I wouldn't be bleeding right now and you'd be gettin' some action!" He laughed and said, "You don't need to be pregnant right now. We have too many other things to worry about. Let's be done with that".

I'm ok with it on one hand but even though I feel ok about not having a baby there is still a little bit of me that is starting to feel a bit of an empty hole in my heart. Initially I didn't feel like I had to replace what I lost, but now as time goes on I kind of feel like I do.

I don't know anymore....
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March 6th, 2010, 07:22 PM
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Argh! Oh Jessica, I'm sorry this is so hard for you =( There is good and bad to every situation, but not knowing what you are going to do is so hard...I hope you get some final answers!!!
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March 6th, 2010, 09:46 PM
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I'm sorry AF showed for you, and I'm sorry that DH isn't quite sticking to his decisions on TTC. I know my DH kept changing his mind about TTC when we first started, and I just felt like it was an emotional rollercoaster. I hope that if your DH is really not on board, that he can stick to that so you can work on accepting it. Sometimes it is so hard to make a decision on TTC- you really want both to not TTC and to TTC. It's just hard. I hope you find some peace with whatever you both decide. Hugs.
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March 7th, 2010, 04:58 AM
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Thanks, guys. This really is such an emotional roller coaster for sure. Geesh!
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Mia Annelise 3-29-2012

^angel^ 10wks, 2 days, D&C 12wks, 3 days 11-2-09
^angel^ 5wks, 5 days 1-2-10
^angel^ 11wks, 1 day 5-22-10 with D&C
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