[kitkat8323]

Ugghhhhhh I feel so defeated i think im done for a bit on the ttc train its too stressful its been 10 month since i started ttc and 6 months since i lost the baby the worst thing right now the 7 month anni of loosing my baby is on my bday the 20th and then since my period started today my next is due on my dd this next month is gonna suck

[Kary♥RN]

HUGS.... Hang in thier.... I know it is so hard... and on CD1 your emotions take over.... Breathe.... vent, cry and get it out... I know how hard it is... I always got very defeated feeling the first week of AF... and yes some months were even worse than others... it will happen... Just know you are not alone.. HUGS!

[Natalie_Snow]

I am sorry {BIG HUGS}. I know how you feel . sorry

[Isabelle]

Massive, massive hugs. TTC can be way stressful.

[ohnicole]

I'm so sorry. TTC, especially after a loss, is so hard emotionally. It can really take a toll. Especially when anniversaries and EDDs start rolling around. This month is my EDD, too, and some days I feel like I am going to drop right back into the depression that I was in right after my loss. I hope you can get through this next month with a little bit of optimism and maybe take some time to think about what is the best plan for you as far as TTC. We are all here to support you. Hugs.

[Celena]

Honey I am sorry that you're feeling this way, it gets to a point were you feel like it's never going to happen... but IT WILL... just not in our time and not in our control. Try to hang in there and look at the ultimate goal, the ultimate blessing that you're working towards it will all pay off the day you're holding that little one!



Believe you me, I understand like so many others do... we're hitting the 2 year mark of when we started TTC our first together. Since then we've gone thru 3 losses just in a matter of months of each other July, August & February and here we are in limbo. I know it will happen for us one day, when? I just don't know. I was extremely discouraged after our 2nd loss and now... well I'm sorta numb.

Wish I could be of more help... thought I'd share a little with you so you don't feel so alone in that aspect of your feelings. These are the days I wish that a magic wand was REAL and I could wave it in the air disspelling so many negative & bad things to a place far far away.

[kitkat8323]

Thanks ladies. its nice to have ppl to talk to that have been through the same thing i have. Ppl who havent had a loss dont know what we ladies have gone through. i just hope these next two months go by fast im tired of crying and being sad i feel bad for my fiance cause he has to deal with it almost every night poor guy.

[martilynne]

I'm sorry. I know it's hard but don't give up hope.