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March 10th, 2010, 12:48 PM
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I wiped after I peed and I saw some blood...not much but some... I am super scared right now! This is exactly how my last m/c started I just got my BFP a week ago (...
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March 10th, 2010, 01:22 PM
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I am sorry! Hang in there! It may not be anything. Have you made a dr. appt. yet?
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March 10th, 2010, 01:30 PM
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I will be praying for you and your bean.... STICK little one, STICK.. HUGS
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March 10th, 2010, 01:32 PM
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thank you!

Nope, doctor won't see me until I'm 8 weeks.. since I only had one miscarriage before, he does not consider me high risk..I am super scared and just like the last time when it started.. I lost all symptoms... I guess I will be joining you again soon .
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March 10th, 2010, 01:36 PM
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I have had my symptoms come and go..... It is very scary... since we know that this has happened in the past... I Hope this is just common early pregnancy bleeding that will stop.. and your syptoms will came back with a vegence tomorrow! HUGS!
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March 10th, 2010, 02:58 PM
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Hang in there. I would call the doc and at least get some bloodwork done. If they won't see you at least they would want to track what's going on with bloodwork. Then at least you would know one way or the other what was going on. I will be praying for that miracle for you ..... don't give up hope yet!
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March 10th, 2010, 03:01 PM
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awww hun. dont give up hope just yet. if your ob wont see you, go see your primary doc. tell them you want your betas checked. they should do it for you.

my prayers are with you and your bean. please kup .
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March 10th, 2010, 03:09 PM
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Dont give up just yet... It may just be early bleeding.. I agree and would get your numbers checked.. My thoughts are with you... BIG HUGS... KUP!
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March 10th, 2010, 07:13 PM
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As super scary as it is for us, the sight of blood and all the horrible feelings we get when we see it... well it's pretty common in early pregnancy.

You should go talk to the PAL girls and they will help aleviate some of your fears when you hear their stories of early pregnancy bleeding, spotting.

I'll be saying a prayer for ya hon sticky bean stick
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March 10th, 2010, 07:17 PM
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Big, tight hugs.
Call your doctor in the morning. I would insist they see me.
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March 10th, 2010, 07:29 PM
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Hugs lady. Keep positive and call your doctor in the AM and demand a blood test.
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March 10th, 2010, 09:05 PM
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Fingers crossed for you. Spotting/bleeding is so common in early pg. It's so hard after a loss, but try to stay positive. I agree with the other ladies that you should try to get some betas done. Hugs.
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March 10th, 2010, 09:16 PM
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You and in my thoughts and prayers. I would demand bloodwork.
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March 10th, 2010, 09:43 PM
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I know bleeding/spotting is scary, especially after you've been through a loss, but it can be normal in early pregnancy. I hope it is nothing and you don't have to come back. Sending tons of sticky dust your way
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March 11th, 2010, 05:44 AM
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thank you all ladies!

My spotting turned into brown and then red blood flow with tiny clots...with some lower abdomen cramping. It soaked one maxi pad in 9 hours... I do not know what I'm still hoping for... but I am pretty sure I am having another m/c.

I do not know if I will be joining TTCAL again though.... risk of having another m/c after 2 losses is higher than after just one loss.... our insurance is crappy and won't cover any testing for abnormalities or fertility specialists... so I do not know why it is happening, if it's genetic problem or low progesterone or whatever.
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March 11th, 2010, 05:50 AM
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oh no i am so very very sorry hun.

~huge hugs~

what if your primary doc had a concern? wouldnt the insurance pay for testing if it was deemed medically necessary? i pray you are able to get some answers.
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March 11th, 2010, 09:52 AM
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Hi - you should double check your insurance. Going to the doctor while having a miscarriage has nothing to do with "infertility"....it could be a medical emergency! Get your blood levels checked and get some feedback. They may even want to exam you and check your levels for a few weeks after - again, that is not the same as fertility testing. Good luck and hugs!!
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March 11th, 2010, 10:26 AM
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I am so so so very sorry...Hang in there....and I will be praying for you...
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