[LisaG825]

The first time DH and I dtd after my m/c I cried. I m/c 12/16 and we have only DTD about 6 times now. Not very much I know. I am just not really in the mood. Each time that we have DTD I feel like I want to cry b/c pretty much the last time we did it was when I got pg. We were unable to DTD during pregnancy b/c I was so sick. It just sucks. I know he can probably tell. I try not to think about it but it is hard. I think if I was able to ttc right now it wouldn't be as bad b/c right now I know that we can't even get pg. It almost seems like what is the point in having sex. Does anyone else feel this way?

[martilynne]

I'm sorry, I know how you feel I hope it gets better for you soon. It stinks when such a good thing can make us so sad

[Kary♥RN]

Lisa HUGS.... I am so sorry you have had to go through this... HUGS

[ohnicole]

I will take the TMI even further

After my loss, I really wanted to DTD because I so wanted to feel as close as I could to DH again. But then we were supposed to prevent for a cycle, and we were using condoms. And to be totally honest, DTD with a condom made me so MAD. I just did not want to go there at all if it meant I had to be reminded that we were not allowed to be trying for another pg.

My hcg levels were high for 11 weeks, and I only made it about 8 weeks before I just couldn't take it anymore and told DH I didn't want him to use condoms anymore. I can't imagine how hard it is to prevent for so long without even having a set date of when you can start TTCing again. I don't blame you for not being in the mood and for being upset when you DTD. Hugs.