To try or not to try...that is the question....

dreamer10 · #1 March 11th, 2010, 07:02 AM

So....I have tried using the OPK's and today it says that I am ovulating. I think I will post a pic later. Anyway...I am torn about whether or not to try to get pregnant...this month, next or what? All my bloodwork after my last loss came back normal. So there really is no answer as to why I keep miscarrying. Just bad luck? Trying too soon? Who knows. I want to try, but I have so many worries. ???? Just rambling on and on .....

BeccaM · #2 March 11th, 2010, 07:13 AM

I wish I can offer some kind of answer but only you know when you are really ready to try again. We have been NTNP since the loss. Once AF shows I will buy some OPK's to try and narrow it down. Im sure once I see a positive OPK I will be a lil nervous that it could actually be "it".

mafiamom · #3 March 11th, 2010, 08:27 AM

i felt the same exact way. it is so hard to know!

because i wanted to loss a bit of weight before getting pregnant again, i opted to wait one cycle. it was the right decision for me, but only YOU know what is right for you.

GL, i know how hard it is to decide~

Isabelle · #4 March 11th, 2010, 07:34 PM

Hugs.
xxx

ohnicole · #5 March 11th, 2010, 07:42 PM

Usually what happens to me is I waffle about the decision for the whole 'waiting to ovulate' part of the cycle, then when I get signs of O, I just can't stop myself from going for it and TTC. I think if you have a gut feeling, listen to it. Sometimes it's not a decision for the brain to make. I hope you have some peace about a decision.