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March 11th, 2010, 07:05 AM
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Tobi
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Good news! My first period after m/c showed yesterday. So I've now officially joined the ranks of TTC! lol
This is one really horrible period though. Very different than normal. Very heavy, lots of clotting, cramping. Normally it is fairly light, and only slight twinges a couple days before AF and NO clotting! Years ago, after the 1st m/c, I had a regular period and then conceived DS on CD 4. Im wondering if it will be the same this time! Im not taking a chance of missing it though, Sunday will be the first time we will actually be 'trying'. (The last was conceived NTNP) Normally I O on day 10, but we can never be sure after m/c, right?
What an exciting/ scary time about to begin!
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What the heck is going on with AF? Wed- very light bleeding, Thu- I was going through tampons like crazy, soaking one in less than 2 hours, all day long! Fri- nothing. Sat- nothing. and now Sun- Af back with a vengance.... Wacky!
Any ideas whats up with me??
Last edited by tobi4; March 14th, 2010 at 12:59 PM.
Reason: update
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March 11th, 2010, 07:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Yayyy Tobi. Im glad she showed for you but sorry she showed with a venegence. Im still waiting for her to rear her ugly head. Hopefully you can get your BFP quickly now that your back to TTC.
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March 11th, 2010, 08:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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hooray!!! it is such a relief to have things get back on par, isnt it?
gl - i hope you break an egg very soon
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March 11th, 2010, 09:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Good luck! I really hope and pray for a wonderful bfp this next month for you!
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Our rainbow baby Brynlee Sue was born August 17th after four heartbreaking loses! Life is an amazing journey. Hang on, keep your faith and try to always move forward!
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March 11th, 2010, 10:27 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yay! I'm still waiting on AF but I'm hoping she shows in the next couple of days.
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March 11th, 2010, 03:19 PM
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Tobi
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Thanks Becca. Our dates are quite similar, Im hoping she shows for you soon!
Thanks ladies for the well wishes! I appreciate it so much, and I wish the same for you all. Lets start the next boom, shall we?? lol
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March 11th, 2010, 07:21 PM
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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Congrats!!!! Wonderful news. Sorry it's a rough period though. Hugs.
I got mine too yesterday. I'm ecstatic
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March 11th, 2010, 07:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Yay! Probably the only time you'll be happy to see AF  Good luck with this month of TTC!
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March 11th, 2010, 09:07 PM
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Tobi
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lol Nicole, you are totally right! I was surprised to be so happy about it. I expected to be sad, and reminded of our loss again, because just days before I was quite upset. But I guess its because I know where I am now with my cycle and Im feeling 'good to go' lol.
Isabelle, Keep me posted on how your cycle is going and Ill let you know as well, maybe we will O the same time, and we could end up being DD buddies! Im usually only a 25 day cycle, with some variation and O a little early in my cycle, around day 10. What about you?
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March 11th, 2010, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by tobi4 plus1more
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Isabelle, Keep me posted on how your cycle is going and Ill let you know as well, maybe we will O the same time, and we could end up being DD buddies! Im usually only a 25 day cycle, with some variation and O a little early in my cycle, around day 10. What about you?
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How neat would that be I'm normally 28 days but I could be all over the place this month due to my body getting back on track. I'm going to use some OPK's and keep a close check on my CM, plus BD every other day, sometimes every day if I can! (or should I say if DH can!!!!)
Good luck to both of us 
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March 11th, 2010, 09:33 PM
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Tobi
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Thank you, I agree, good luck to us both! And really, about being all over the place, I know exactly what you mean. After my first m/c I could not believe I had conceived on day 4. And I know for sure that was the day because any other time was protected! Surprise! lol. I personally have no clue about the OPK's or how to check my CM. Im just simply going to have my hun begging to let him take a break! haha, hes not going to know what hit him!
Hey I just noticed your oldest son is named Logan, that is one of our favourite names!
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March 11th, 2010, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted by tobi4 plus1more
Thank you, I agree, good luck to us both! And really, about being all over the place, I know exactly what you mean. After my first m/c I could not believe I had conceived on day 4. And I know for sure that was the day because any other time was protected! Surprise! lol. I personally have no clue about the OPK's or how to check my CM. Im just simply going to have my hun begging to let him take a break! haha, hes not going to know what hit him!
Hey I just noticed your oldest son is named Logan, that is one of our favourite names!
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You are making me laugh so hard. I told my husband tonight that he better rest up while I have my period because he won't know what's hit him in a week or so's time 
Yes, we have 3 little boys. Logan, Shaun & Gavin We love their names.
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March 14th, 2010, 02:26 PM
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Tobi
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Hmmm Looks like Im ovulating, lots of pain left side. Its always quite painful while I O. And I started bleeding again this morning. Unless I O twice this month, which Ive been known to do occasionally, Im thinking theres no catching this egg. 
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March 14th, 2010, 02:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good Luck... The first cycle after a m/c can be very, very, screwy... I hope this is just what all this O pain/bleeding is.. and you catch that eggie!
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