[markswife]

As I was leaving work last night, one of the secretarys was there holding her new grandbaby and said to me when are you going to have one of these? I know that she doesn't know that we just lost a baby but wow, that cut right to the core.

Then I woke up this morning and the first thought that jumped into my head was I should have been 12 weeks along today and should be telling people that we are expecting a baby. Instead I sit here on CD 6 with nothing.

[Isabelle]

I'm so sorry.
Massive, massive hugs to you.

[LisaG825]

I am so sorry! That has to be hard. I keep thinking about how far along I would be too. I would have been 28 weeks today.

[martilynne]

I'm sorry...

[~Lynda~]

it is truly unfair!!!! HUGS!!!!

[Natalie_Snow]

I am so sorry!!! {HUGS} It's really hard and it hurts a lot! I was asked the same question several times.
Recently I was at my DH cousin's house and was holding her newborn baby. Then she asked me when I was going to have a baby of my own? she said that after being married for 4 years, we should already have a baby...That hurt like hell! I had to smile and say maybe one day..sometime in the future. I would have been 23 weeks now.. oh nooo. I think it's easier to stop counting weeks.

[ldovey83]

HUGE hugs.. Sometimes it is the comments that sting the worse.. I have my neighbor to constantly remind me of what should've been, but I am ok with it.. It will get better.. Hang in there hun... HUGS!!!!!

[ohnicole]

I'm so sorry- sometimes the comments are so hard to deal with. Hugs.