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March 13th, 2010, 09:21 PM
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I think I realized why I have been so down lately. A lot of the ppl that were pg are having or have had their babies by now. I had one cousin that had her baby right when I had my m/c. Can't really remember if it was before or after b/c I didn't go over to my g'mas house at Christmas. A girl I went to school with had her twins the end of Jan. My other cousin had her baby Feb. 27. My stepsister had her baby March 3rd. I have two other ppl that I went to school with in my class that had their babies on March 11th & 12th.


Now for ppl that are still pg. Not sure when my cousin's gf is due but I am sure it is anytime. I think she was further along than what I was. I know 6 other ppl that I went to school with that are due any where from July-Nov. One just found out. One of the 5 is a really good friend. She asked for my address for the shower invite but I never gave it to her. She is due July 3rd. I think I would go insane if I found out that someone else is pg. that I know. I am sure there are more but they don't
gloat (sp. ?)about it on facebook.
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March 14th, 2010, 04:21 AM
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Aww Lisa, it's a crappy time when you are surrounded by pg people or people having their bubs when you so much just want to be that person. I remember avoiding social situations and I even left a shopping centre (mall) b/c I kept bumping into pg people. It's just plain awful. Hugs to you hun
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March 14th, 2010, 08:29 AM
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I am so sorry. I know how it feels...all three of my recent loses I have a close friend who was due with me. So now I have 3 ladies right here in my area who are having babies in apr, july and oct...right close to when my edd's were for all three of my loses. It's hard to see their wonderful bellies, and see their ultrasound pics and I try to be good and buy clothes for their babies...but its all so hard. Just hang in there and try to keep moving forward. It will be your turn soon and they will want to shower you with lots of love and gifts. Good luck!
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March 14th, 2010, 10:44 AM
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Lisa Im sorry your having a hard time. I have those days as well. It will get better and we all will be having our lil ones. BIG HUGS!!!!
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March 14th, 2010, 11:52 AM
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I'm so sorry I've had to hide some people from my news feed because they make at least a post a day about being pregnant. Luckily nobody is pregnant around me, I'm not quite sure how I would handle it if there was
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