What is your favorite...

Celena · #1 March 14th, 2010, 11:15 PM

thing that people say to you when you tell them you're trying to concieve?

.:Shortcake:. · #2 March 15th, 2010, 04:07 AM

Right now I'm sick of everyone asking me aren't you pregnant yet?! And my response "No, I'm not. When God says its time, it will happen."

dreamer10 · #3 March 15th, 2010, 06:05 AM

I don't think I have a favorite thing that people say...but I can tell you what my most "unfavorite" thing they say is....

"Why? You already have 9...what's the point?".....ugh...it drives me nuts!

BeccaM · #4 March 15th, 2010, 07:27 AM

Only one we have really told we will TTC again is DH's mother and she just said to hurry up she ready to be a grandma again! Then told DH we cant tease her with a baby. Its not like I did it on purpose!

ldovey83 · #5 March 15th, 2010, 09:08 AM

My favorite one is... So when are you having baby number 2? I just smile and grin and say in God's timing, but what I really want to say is... I've lost two babies already have a heart and don't upset me...

markswife · #6 March 15th, 2010, 09:21 AM

I really *LOVE* it when people shove a baby in your face and ask when are you going to decide to have one of these? I just want to scream at them NOW, I want one of those RIGHT NOW. If only the issue was wanting a baby and then you could just have one. I'd be so much happier right now.

martilynne · #7 March 15th, 2010, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by markswife

I really *LOVE* it when people shove a baby in your face and ask when are you going to decide to have one of these? I just want to scream at them NOW, I want one of those RIGHT NOW. If only the issue was wanting a baby and then you could just have one. I'd be so much happier right now.

Celena · #8 March 15th, 2010, 01:40 PM

I was being sarcastic about "favorite" thing... so yes, I totally mean your least favorite thing. I know so many of us hear things we just want to scream at the person saying them then rip off their heads pooping down their throats!

Ok, I have a few...

1) this supposed "friend" of mine said with my most recent loss... "Maybe God is trying to tell you something"

Really??? what is wrong with you... I mean **** when she was bleeding in months 2-6 of her recent pregnancy I didn't say "well maybe if you quit smoking 1-2 packs a day and taking vicodin maybe you'd stop bleeding" Seriously?!

2) or my mother saying "don't you have enough with yours and his" ok mom, listen to what you just said... mine and his, not OURS. WE want a baby of our own, together...